Ayazbaaz Posted February 14, 2020 Share Posted February 14, 2020 We work in same organisation, The day she joined I gave my heart to her, and within 15 days I proposed her but she rejected in a very gentle reply NO.. And than we were just friend but Every Day I used to proposed her and get same Reply No... She was never irritated by my propose we used to eat together..had long phones call we were enjoying everyday.. I and She were the best couples without any relation in the office.. Than After 8 months i was transferred to another location I and she both were upset..she promised me we will be in contact.. I took her for a trip last day of my office .. Everything was going good but the moment I left .. Things started changing.. On very first day she told me not to call .. I asked her for reason she said there is no reson but u dont call me..Ok I said Next week I went to her first she ignored me as if I am from Mars she didn't recognize me.. I was very angry on her I asked her do t you remember me.. and she started crying and said please leave me .. Ok I said and went back Than I started Calling her For One Month every day she disconnected my calls. And than One day she call me from her side ..I asked her how r u and she said Good.. and than some formal talks and cutoff I started updating status tagging her and Everyday she read all my status but never gives any reply Now from Few days she started replying my whatsaap text and calls but We talks for hours but i don't find the excitement which i use to experience... I Love her a lot and she knows this very well.. I was always with her side whenever she was in problem.. I taught her a lot programms now which she is a master in it.. from last one year all her mobile bills are paid by me and she never says no.. I am bit confused what i should do... Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted February 14, 2020 Share Posted February 14, 2020 No, she doesn't love you. My guess is that she was dating someone and didn't want him becoming suspicious about you, so she avoided you as much as she could. In any case, you are in the Friend Zone, and you need to stop paying her phone bill. It's not going to make her suddenly want to be your girlfriend, man. Link to post Share on other sites
schlumpy Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 This isn't love it's being used. You need to see a counselor and sort out your feelings with them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Caauug Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 13 hours ago, Ayazbaaz said: Than After 8 months i was transferred to another location I and she both were upset..she promised me we will be in contact.. I took her for a trip last day of my office .. Everything was going good but the moment I left .. Things started changing.. On very first day she told me not to call .. I asked her for reason she said there is no reson but u dont call me..Ok I said No longer required? 13 hours ago, Ayazbaaz said: I taught her a lot programms now which she is a master in it.. from last one year all her mobile bills are paid by me and she never says no.. No longer required, except keep paying the phone bill.... 13 hours ago, Ayazbaaz said: And than One day she call me from her side ..I asked her how r u and she said Good.. and than some formal talks and cutoff One last thing you have to teach her.... Then you can disappear.... 13 hours ago, Ayazbaaz said: Next week I went to her first she ignored me as if I am from Mars she didn't recognize me.. I was very angry on her I asked her do t you remember me.. and she started crying and said please leave me .. Ok I said and went back She showed a little gilt for using you.... She has someone else.... Any chance you had (likely none) you blew when you got transferred away from her. 13 hours ago, Ayazbaaz said: The day she joined I gave my heart to her, and within 15 days I proposed her but she rejected in a very gentle reply NO.. She just played you to get anything she could from you, you were a push over.... You were a good teacher and even a provider (paid her phone) and boosted her ego, gave validation. She will likely expect that from the next sucker that comes into her life... She is a user, spit the blue pill out, look at her actions, they tell you what she is like!!! Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 What you should do is leave her alone. She doesn't love you She things you are a sucker for paying for her bills. She's happy to take your money but she had no feelings for you. You are some person she used to work with who is behaving pathetically Cut off the cell phone. Delete her number. Disconnect on social media. Don't look back. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ayazbaaz Posted February 15, 2020 Author Share Posted February 15, 2020 22 hours ago, Ayazbaaz said: We work in same organisation, The day she joined I gave my heart to her, and within 15 days I proposed her but she rejected in a very gentle reply NO.. And than we were just friend but Every Day I used to proposed her and get same Reply No... She was never irritated by my propose we used to eat together..had long phones call we were enjoying everyday.. I and She were the best couples without any relation in the office.. Than After 8 months i was transferred to another location I and she both were upset..she promised me we will be in contact.. I took her for a trip last day of my office .. Everything was going good but the moment I left .. Things started changing.. On very first day she told me not to call .. I asked her for reason she said there is no reson but u dont call me..Ok I said Next week I went to her first she ignored me as if I am from Mars she didn't recognize me.. I was very angry on her I asked her do t you remember me.. and she started crying and said please leave me .. Ok I said and went back Than I started Calling her For One Month every day she disconnected my calls. And than One day she call me from her side ..I asked her how r u and she said Good.. and than some formal talks and cutoff I started updating status tagging her and Everyday she read all my status but never gives any reply Now from Few days she started replying my whatsaap text and calls but We talks for hours but i don't find the excitement which i use to experience... I Love her a lot and she knows this very well.. I was always with her side whenever she was in problem.. I taught her a lot programms now which she is a master in it.. from last one year all her mobile bills are paid by me and she never says no.. I am bit confused what i should do... Thank You All for your Kind words.. Good News is today she blocked me when I asked her to meet me... Ah i am in pain.. she knows how much I loved her.. I choose wrong person to play with my emotions.. Although she didn't accepted my LOVE..but everyone in the room knew that we were partners.. How close we were..I used to cry in front of her.. I wasted my tears.. She was completely a changed person the day i left.. Will update later.. as you all may understand my condition Link to post Share on other sites
TeddyBundy1993 Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 Wtf is wrong with you mate ?? This women has made you her chauffeur makes you pay Bill's ignore you and you keep going back to her. For what ? She has made clear she doesn't love you. And only interested in you when shes bored need company or someone to pay bill. If someone loves you they dont ignore your calls or can survive too long without talking to you. Be a man. Reduce your contact with her. Have some self respect you make me remind of that saying " We love someone we can never have". This women more or less is enjoying your attention you are giving. Move on to someone who cares about you, or stay single but never run this long after someone its not worth Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 She doesn't love you AT ALL and she is desperately trying to get away from you. Stop being a chump paying her bill. Leave her alone and move on. She has zero interest, and there is nothing that is going to change that. You need a reality check! You can't force someone to love you, and she doesn't and has begged you to leave her alone. Do it before she calls the police. Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted February 16, 2020 Share Posted February 16, 2020 You have a problem. You should seek professional help. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted February 16, 2020 Share Posted February 16, 2020 16 hours ago, Ayazbaaz said: Although she didn't accepted my LOVE..but everyone in the room knew that we were partners.. How close we were..I used to cry in front of her.. I wasted my tears.. She was completely a changed person the day i left.. I don't think so, bud. I don't mean to sound insensitive or unkind, but I strongly believe this love and partnership was mostly in your head. She was friends with you and happy to use you for your bill-paying abilities, but this relationship you were living was in your mind and not in reality. You have to leave her alone now, which includes cutting off the phone if you haven't already done so. She does not want to be with you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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