mortensorchid Posted February 15, 2020 Posted February 15, 2020 I was doing some Facebook spying and came across a woman who was/is the sister of the man who rejected me 6 years ago. (It was a true turning point moment for me which I have sighted several times on this forum and with my shrink but that's another story.) And she had a kissyface photo of her and her bf. She said she swiped right on Tinder and she had a crush on him in 9th grade but he didn't know it. And now they are in love. Cute. Last time I was on Tinder some guy asked if I was bi and if I like dominating others. Or does that sound bitter?
Shining One Posted February 15, 2020 Posted February 15, 2020 She's selectively sharing a positive moment from Tinder and you're selectively sharing a negative moment from Tinder. I'm betting that he's not the only Tinder encounter she had. 3
Miss Spider Posted February 15, 2020 Posted February 15, 2020 (edited) Wait I thought that was on Bumble? Guess that’s not the point though. That guy was weird, but plenty of people meet their SOs on Tinder. I’m pretty sure people could meet at a Love Abolishment Summit, but if the connection is there, it’s there. A little bitter maybe, but understandable. I don’t think you’re doing yourself any favors by still e-stalking this guy or his family. I would totally erase him/pics or whatever if you haven’t already done that. I get that sometimes he might inevitably pop into your life anyway, like in the case of the theatre thing, but wouldn’t go looking for it. Oh and also in the case of the theatre thing, I think you should ignore his family to the extent you can and do you. Stay involved with things you’re passionate about. Edited February 15, 2020 by Cookiesandough
CAPSLOCK CROOK Posted February 15, 2020 Posted February 15, 2020 3 hours ago, mortensorchid said: I was doing some Facebook spying Well there is your first problem. Focus on you.
alphamale Posted February 15, 2020 Posted February 15, 2020 5 hours ago, CAPSLOCK CROOK said: Well there is your first problem. Focus on you. ^^this
CloudyHead Posted February 16, 2020 Posted February 16, 2020 I call it "Facebook stalking" . . . All it accomplishes is reliving past painful experiences and the emotions associated with those events. I have a few friends who met their husbands on Tinder.
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