BREAK UP, REBOUND, anXIETY ISSUES DUMPER

[jgamallo2000]

I met her, 52 years old, in the middle of August 2019, she works and lives in my city and she lives with her son in her hone town at the weekend 110 km away-
Until October 1, we went out only to go dancing as friends on Sundays when she returned from home, she knew almost nothing about my city.

She is  is attractive, even  had low self-esteem since it had gained 12 kilos, especially accumulated in the hips, due to hypothyroidism.
From what I heard from her , I literally hated the ex-husband and complained about other things, so I assumed he was not for  romantic relationships anyway,
We started to like each other, because of their joy and in October we started going out together as romantic partners.
The truth is that she was moving very fast in the relationship, hungry for it, and I let myself go and troed to make her happy without overwhelming her and giving her freedom. We talked every day on the phone and many love signals and many I love you.
One day I went with her to the doctor and discovered that she had thyroid cancer and suffered from hypothyroidism. This carries lots of emotional mental troubles and physical one, she had all the symptons.
As of the month her behavior began to change, his moods changed continuously and she distrusted or invented situations of infidelity for any minimal indication.
But she was  loving  in his good times we had a good time and excellent sex.
At the beginning of December, she apparently entered into a deep anxiety depression due to economic problems, lived  beyond  her possibilities and overdue debts that went through judicial means.
This made it worse for our relationship, I gave him advice to defer payments and negotiate with his lawyers.
For not letting her check  my whtaspp one day he blocks me with rage and after a handwritten  letter of mine unlocks me. From my current point of view I should give space and not control me. 

One weekend he invites me to her town  house and introduces me to her son and  friends, just on Sunday back she feels tired and  left her in my room alone to calm down, she begins to open  drawers and closets, find some old women's shoes  and cut them angrily with scissors. Another super red flag
I assumed that these mood swings would be temporary and that everything would return to normal, I became more generous with her because of her problems without doing nonsense.
She liked look nice and superfemenine , doing nails etc spite spite econocimic problems   but with low self-esteem for all the previous life that had passed.
He asks his daughter to borrow money who  is already married to pay off part of the debt, and from that moment the daughter does not talk to her and stops taking her granddaughter.
I realized that she was not talking with her family, only with her son and she was like a socially withdrawn although proud of her physical and charisma with the ability to manipulate for being a former saleswoman and her current work for the public.
From December 27, stop answering my whatsapp, on January 10 we have a coffee and tell me that it is sunk again by other debts and incidentally speaks to me aggressively of my possible unfaithfulness.
From there I communicate with her sporadically and only to support her possible depression.
Three weeks ago he calls me on whastapp and tells me with a tone of almost bragging that she has a new boyfriend, compares me to him and only says that we are different but he is pharmaceutical and for me she no longer feels anything,
It seemed totally strange to me she wants to feel in love and seduced constantly
I felt totally frustrated about treating myself like this after behaving so well with her, I sent her photos of how I had spent it at the end of the year with a pretty attractive friend and she became totally jealous, I told her that I was just a friend and that I was not interested in relationships romantic, except with her.
I tell her to return my stuff to me, including a borrowed vacuum cleaner  since I was suddenly changed and  I am worth less than a vacuum cleaner.
The next week she brings them to me and I tell her to keep them that he had the flu and tiredness.
At night she calls me in a totally affectionate way, asking me about my supposed girlfriend and I told him that I didn't feel like adventures just to recover from the relationship, she said goodbye with kisses and see you tomorrow.
I told her that luck that her new conquest has as much patience to love her as I do.
The next day, however I send him a message thanking her for speaking to me in such cordial terms, but she tells me that everything is over and that he picks up my things, then leaves me blocked.

From that I put contact 0 and I still love her blocked and in a rebound. Will it last because her moody behavior
I bought another phone and she dies  not contact whatssap at night, when our conversations were very long and more when she works in a city with few acquaintances.
I do not know what goes through your mind sure that with many messes and augmented by his anxiety, I want her  despite everything that comes back to me, we had a really good time are sex and everything, and now it seems  is if she  was not her.
I am sure this guy will not last, he is an educated person with options,  she not much and carrying lots of troubles . controlling, narcissits etc.
Any way I still love her and miss her
 

[kendahke]

Are you using a translation app? You keep jumping from "her" to "him" to "it" and it's confusing to follow.

[jgamallo2000]

2 minutes ago, kendahke said:

Are you using a translation app? You keep jumping from "her" to "him" to "it" and it's confusing to follow.

Sorry it is my fault all the pronoums are her...or she ...forget him he or it...any advice?

[preraph]

If she has cancer that means she may not be with us long, and of course she's going to be in a terrible mood because of it. And now she's facing insurmountable debt and probably won't even be able to get the care she needs.

 

It is going to be a very Rocky Road.