JTSW Posted February 26, 2020 Share Posted February 26, 2020 12 hours ago, somewhatperplexed said: I'm also older than my partner, some might say by a significant margin. So she has a thing for much older guys. How significant is the age gap? Link to post Share on other sites
Author somewhatperplexed Posted February 26, 2020 Author Share Posted February 26, 2020 6 minutes ago, JTSW said: So she has a thing for much older guys. How significant is the age gap? Yes she does. Between us? Closer to 10 than 5 years. Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted February 26, 2020 Share Posted February 26, 2020 52 minutes ago, somewhatperplexed said: Yes she does. Between us? Closer to 10 than 5 years. And she still continues to hang around that other older man. Link to post Share on other sites
Author somewhatperplexed Posted February 26, 2020 Author Share Posted February 26, 2020 (edited) 22 minutes ago, JTSW said: And she still continues to hang around that other older man. She doesn't hang around him, I think I explained this. They are in touch on occasion, but haven't seen each other bar in the hallways at her old job. Edited February 26, 2020 by somewhatperplexed Link to post Share on other sites
Author somewhatperplexed Posted February 26, 2020 Author Share Posted February 26, 2020 1 hour ago, JTSW said: And she still continues to hang around that other older man. Loved how you bundled me together with him regarding our age, though Link to post Share on other sites
schlumpy Posted February 26, 2020 Share Posted February 26, 2020 Put the age thing aside. She likes and possibly seeks out older men for relationships. You are available and she is available. What is keeping you from locking her down? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author somewhatperplexed Posted February 26, 2020 Author Share Posted February 26, 2020 14 minutes ago, schlumpy said: Put the age thing aside. She likes and possibly seeks out older men for relationships. You are available and she is available. What is keeping you from locking her down? I don't think I understood what you're asking, would you mind explaining? Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted February 26, 2020 Share Posted February 26, 2020 Just now, somewhatperplexed said: I don't think I understood what you're asking, would you mind explaining? He means, whats stopping you from marrying her? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author somewhatperplexed Posted February 26, 2020 Author Share Posted February 26, 2020 Nothing. Who said I had no intention of doing so? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
scotchnstout Posted March 15, 2020 Share Posted March 15, 2020 Honestly stop blaming this dude for your girl's choices, not sure if your over this yet, but my two cents going forward would be to have a little jealousy, and have a boundary or two where your SO is concerned. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted March 15, 2020 Share Posted March 15, 2020 On 2/26/2020 at 7:26 AM, somewhatperplexed said: Loved how you bundled me together with him regarding our age, though How much older is he than you? She has a pattern of going for older men so I don't know why you are blaming this other older guy when this is what she wanted. How many other older men has she been with even before him. I would drop all questions and ideas about her if you want to have a peaceful relationship with her. You don't want to open that closet that is full of skeletons. Link to post Share on other sites
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