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I met this girl yesterday at an event she hosted and we talked briefly as she was working the room. Near the end of our convo she rubbed my arm, most likely in a friendly way. I'm going to go to a few more events of hers to see if she's that way with other guys and make a determination. Could this be interpreted as flirting?

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It may have been flirting but she may just be a flirty girl.  I think your idea to return & observe more about how she is in general is a good plan.  

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flirting usually comes with a "cluster" of signals, not just one. most likely it was just a friendly gesture

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She's a host....she's being friendly so you will have a pleasant experience and attend her other events. It's called salesmanship.

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On 2/24/2020 at 9:45 AM, ikonik said:

I met this girl yesterday at an event she hosted and we talked briefly as she was working the room. Near the end of our convo she rubbed my arm, most likely in a friendly way. I'm going to go to a few more events of hers to see if she's that way with other guys and make a determination. Could this be interpreted as flirting?

Just like when you go over to your aunt and uncle's house for a barbecue and your uncle pats you on the back while mingling with conversation---doesnt mean he's got eyes for you. He's making his guests feel comfortable and welcome. Same with her--she was entertaining people, so that's what she's going to do. Nothing special.

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On 2/24/2020 at 9:46 AM, alphamale said:

flirting usually comes with a "cluster" of signals, not just one. most likely it was just a friendly gesture

What are these signals? 

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It depends on how she treated you...You must look at her with affection then if you find that she's interested what you doing so she might flirting with you.

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