welphereiam Posted February 25, 2020 Share Posted February 25, 2020 Hi everyone, This site gives such great advice so I'm back with another situation. I randomly met this attractive 38 year old woman on Instagram about a year and a half ago. She followed me and I saw she was HOT and I went right into her DM's. Nothing over the top. I'm not the guy to try and go straight for the sex talk. I'll give it a few days or whatever is naturally needed to bring it up. We had been chatting for about three months and during that time I found out she lived about three hours from me and she comes in my direction rarely but she does. I told her to let me know, and a month later we met up. We had a great time but kind of understood this wasn't really anything at the time. Fast forward to now. We've been chatting for a year and a half, and we continue to talk regularly. I have made it known I'm attracted to her and all that and I ask about seeing her every few months. In two weeks she is coming to see me and I am thinking about trying to go in for the kiss and see where it goes. On the other hand... I'm the guy who is the unlucky awkward guy in romantic comedies. I've been wrong before. I'm just tossing it out as a topic. And this time I'm not trying to overthink like I usually do. Keep me sane!! 😁 Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted February 25, 2020 Share Posted February 25, 2020 (edited) lf she's 38 how old are you , surely you must be close to that then too and surely you don't have to think about all that bs of going for a kiss like a 15yr old. She'd be screaming for at least some kissing by now anyway if she's into you in that way, and if she isn't , that's how it goes , only one way to find out,. Edited February 25, 2020 by chillii Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted February 25, 2020 Share Posted February 25, 2020 If the mood is romantic, it'll be obvious. Don't force anything. Socialize and flirt, sure. If she's in the area for other reasons as well and is visiting you as part, accept that. If things go well, tell her you'd like to return the favor and visit her. Accept the answer. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Foxhall Posted February 25, 2020 Share Posted February 25, 2020 Yes at least shes coming to see you, most guys with long distance texting, how many of them ever get to meet the gold as it were, so thats half the battle, good luck!! Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 25, 2020 Share Posted February 25, 2020 Whether to kiss or not will depend on the situation. You can't tell much from texts. See how the situation plays out & if the mood is right, kiss away, but make sure you are reading the situation correctly. Don't just surprise her with a kiss she didn't see coming & didn't want. Link to post Share on other sites
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