Why he wants to see me more often if he wants to find a girlfriend ?

[strabun]

We are seeing each other for a year. Lately he talks about how he wants to find a girlfriend. A girl with who he will be in a serious relationship, to spent his money on her, sleeping only with her. He told me that a couple of times, I didn't ask him. But why he wants to see me more often and calls me to see me ? And wants to have a drink with me ? He ask me do I sleep with others and with who ? Last time he said that I am very dear to him and lately he is very romantic.

[healing light]

Given this and your other post, sounds like he is feeling you out to see if you would like to be something more serious, especially since he is accidentally slipping I love you's. You need to be clear with him about what you want because if this started out as friends with benefits, it seems like things have shifted on his end.

[justwhoiam]

14 hours ago, strabun said:

But why he wants to see me more often and calls me to see me ?

Because he'd like that girlfriend to be you? But you told him you don't love him multiple times, so he's letting you know that he'll look elsewhere. Maybe it's supposed to be your wake-up call. He doesn't want to let you go. He still hopes you will be the one. The ball's in your court.

 

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He ask me do I sleep with others and with who ?

Because he's jealous. He doesn't want you to sleep with other guys. But there's not much he can do if you don't like him that way...

How far are you from each other? How often do you meet each other?