NOTSUREHECHEATS05 Posted October 6, 2005 Share Posted October 6, 2005 Hi everyone, I am new here and as my name says it i am not sure my hubby is cheating but i think he is talking to someone, Firstof all we had a long talk his problems with me is that he feels i don't give him enough attention, we should go out more often etc...... Ihave made it a priority to do so, but i am monitoring him there is a particular name is saw on his phone a woman's name of course that i don't know , and secondly i see he once called that # just before coming home, i have been monitoring one of his cells cause he has two he is a business man the one that is unlocked i check it in the mornings when he is inthe bathroom this morning i think he heard me cause he came out and he locked his phone i pretended to be doing something else i noticed he had called that # last night arond almost 8 p.m and i heard him inthe batroom making a call when he got home u know secretly..... then i took the phone and pressed redial but he had already pressed some crazy # that did not exist anyway....... i cannot monitor the cell for a while now...... I am not sure if he is cheating or if he did already but he is speaking to a woman, and i think it is odd having to call late at night secretly....... So what do u all suggest i do, i want to work on my marriage of course but i will not be screwed by no Man, u know cheating on me i would rather leave and i just have to know what is going on, I am going to have the phone company give me a print out of the #s that were called and i will be able to see if they match but they can only give it to me mid October cause they are late or something. I am keeping my cool and being a good wife loving he is very loving towards me too, the sex is good u know but if he is talking to someone on the side i need to know, Do u all think he is definately cheating? or on his way to? or did already also i need to mention he has this guy's night out on Friday's when he hangs with the guys without me of course i am not the party goer too much so that works out well for him this friday without telling him i have made arrangements to leave my little girl with my mom and i will tell him surprise i am joining the guy's night out, lol...... well give me ur honnest opinion i just need to talk to someone about this and i think this is the perfect place i will not say anything to anyone until i am sure i don't want him to know i suspect him well come to think of it if he could lock his cell then he knows that my attena's are up. Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted October 6, 2005 Share Posted October 6, 2005 First of all, use paragraphs, it helps make your post easier to read. Second of all, he locks his cell and you know it? This is a red flag- as well as him complaining about the affection that you give him etc. Get a print out of his cell phone logs- if he's not up to anything he won't mind providing them. Put a keylogger on your computer. Then, insist on marriage counseling. If he won't go to counseling, then it's time to think about making a change. Making calls from the bathroom and intentionally changing the last number he called to throw you off track? Yeah, I'd say it points to cheating. Link to post Share on other sites
Author NOTSUREHECHEATS05 Posted October 6, 2005 Author Share Posted October 6, 2005 I answered on the infidelity posts thanks Mz Pixie.... Link to post Share on other sites
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