Beendaredonedat Posted March 3, 2020 Share Posted March 3, 2020 23 hours ago, Logo said: This question is for the men on here, have you ever developed physical attraction to a woman over time? I'm not a man but the question is obvious to me. Of course anyone can develop an attraction over time. How do you think emotional affairs with begin? They usually start out as platonic friends who are not attracted to one another but through their inappropriate hanging out one on one and daily contact (if its a work mate), they suddenly find themselves in deep. My question to you, OP is why do you ask? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted March 3, 2020 Share Posted March 3, 2020 (edited) Trying to convince yourself by someone else's opinion is a road to nowhere....Either love her for whatever else she brings to the table, or let her go and stop trying to find answers ...Only you know what you want....No one else's experiences will really matter... TFY Edited March 4, 2020 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 6 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted March 3, 2020 Share Posted March 3, 2020 If you have to question this repeatedly, it means that you shouldn't be with this woman. If she knew what was in your mind, it's unlikely she'd continue with you anyway. Even big girls have standards 4 Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted March 3, 2020 Share Posted March 3, 2020 Why are you still dating this woman?? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Beendaredonedat Posted March 3, 2020 Share Posted March 3, 2020 I'll venture to say that you are codependent to the nth degree if you are staying with someone hoping that your attraction to her will grow. You'll find that will get real old fast and you'll be too afraid to leave her while you be miserable and feeling frustrated while you try to change her and failing at it. So I too will ask: Why are you still dating this woman? I'll add: Why are you afraid to change your lot? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Logo Posted March 4, 2020 Author Share Posted March 4, 2020 9 hours ago, CautiouslyOptimistic said: Why are you still dating this woman?? Which woman? Why assume? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Logo Posted March 4, 2020 Author Share Posted March 4, 2020 9 hours ago, basil67 said: If you have to question this repeatedly, it means that you shouldn't be with this woman. If she knew what was in your mind, it's unlikely she'd continue with you anyway. Even big girls have standards She who? Who are you talking about? I’d love to get an answer to this. Make more assumptions. Have at it Link to post Share on other sites
Author Logo Posted March 4, 2020 Author Share Posted March 4, 2020 9 hours ago, thefooloftheyear said: Trying to convince yourself by someone else's opinion is a road to nowhere....Either love her for whatever else she brings to the table, or let her go and stop trying to find answers ...Only you know what you want....No one else's experiences will really matter... TFY Love who? Care to be specific as to explain how you magically came to the conclusion that you know where the question came from or do assumptions work better? Link to post Share on other sites
Daisydooks Posted March 4, 2020 Share Posted March 4, 2020 18 minutes ago, Logo said: Love who? Care to be specific as to explain how you magically came to the conclusion that you know where the question came from or do assumptions work better? How many women have these posts been about? You have written multiple posts about attraction growing over time for a woman who doesnt value the same things you do. She is heavier, eats carbs, doesn't work out... etc. Why are you playing stupid now? Lol. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Logo Posted March 4, 2020 Author Share Posted March 4, 2020 1 minute ago, Daisydooks said: How many women have these posts been about? You have written multiple posts about attraction growing over time for a woman who doesnt value the same things you do. She is heavier, eats carbs, doesn't work out... etc. Why are you playing stupid now? Lol. Because I enjoy abusive comments like yours 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Daisydooks Posted March 4, 2020 Share Posted March 4, 2020 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Logo said: Because I enjoy abusive comments like yours Oh stop. Lol. My comments have been nice and I have done nothing but understanding in my responses to you. You're playing like you dont know what woman we are talking about. Dont lump me with others for asking why you're playing stupid now. Abusive does not describe my behaviour or actions or words to you ever. Lol. Go back and read all my comments to you. Edited March 4, 2020 by Daisydooks 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Logo Posted March 4, 2020 Author Share Posted March 4, 2020 If the peanut gallery chooses to join in, the least it should do is ask to verify instead of assume. “Oh stop” umm hmm. We don’t use “stupid” in my household. I’m going to rest my head on a pillow and have a nice sleep. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Logo Posted March 4, 2020 Author Share Posted March 4, 2020 A sincere thank you to those who actually took the time to answer my question from the posted dated 3/2. Link to post Share on other sites
LivingWaterPlease Posted March 4, 2020 Share Posted March 4, 2020 While you're sleeping I'm going to post. I've never been attracted to someone I didn't have chemistry with. And I've never had chemistry with someone I wasn't attracted to. I've seen and dated once or twice good looking men that I wasn't attracted to. Takes more than appearance for me to consider a person attractive. Link to post Share on other sites
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