carhill Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 Took me sixty years to get there, very freeing actually. I don't use people, rather they simply don't matter anymore. Any outcome is acceptable, even death. We all die eventually. I'm further along than many I meet in daily life. In today's society it's quite easy to remain invisible with so many so completely involved in their own world. Back in the day I'd opine their world is small and they fill it completely. Now I opine that's pretty normal and unremarkable. When encountering an exception, I smile a little. The texture of life. You'll work it out. Most do. Billions more young ladies on the planet who knows what tomorrow will bring. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lorf10 Posted March 14, 2020 Author Share Posted March 14, 2020 (edited) So that's gonna be the last post about this. It's been around 1 month that I have blocked her and wow. For everyone who might read this and is in a similar situation: It's a hard step to do but it will make you feel better. You don't owe a person like this nothing and bluntly said: they are not gonna care anyways (something I learned through all you guys, thanks!) I haven't talked to the girl herself but her roommates would tell me things here and there and apparently she tried texting me. (Didn't get anything because she is blocked). However she is out every night with some guy that no one knows. She doesn't clean her room anymore, she started skipping exams in uni, she doesn't do her assignments. No one knows what's happening to her. However all this just shows me that I made the right decision. All these things are things I don't support. Again, thank you all for helping me and trying to open my eyes. I know I asked for the truth but at the beginning I didn't wanna hear it and didn't believe it. Sorry about that. Sometimes the learning curve is just a little longer! Edited March 14, 2020 by Lorf10 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Supernova11 Posted March 14, 2020 Share Posted March 14, 2020 On 1/11/2020 at 2:52 PM, d0nnivain said: She's upset because everything is now awkward & she knows she lost a good guy friend who made her feel safe. She doesn't want to date you but she knows that now you two will be strained when you hang out, you can't talk every day & the hand holding physical contact she grew to enjoy has to stop. It would not be fair to you to continue. In a lot of ways she lead you on which was wrong of her. On your end, just be cool. Do not bring this up to her. Just be yourself but do not initiate anything with her for a while. Be warm when you see her in a group setting but put some distance in here. I agree with this. This is really good advice and I would read this paragraph a few times so it sinks in. Link to post Share on other sites
Realitysux Posted March 14, 2020 Share Posted March 14, 2020 I don't know. I don't really get it either. I would say move on, find another friend and another women to kiss you ! Link to post Share on other sites
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