Petejenkins87 Posted March 4, 2020 Share Posted March 4, 2020 (edited) Hello, I'm looking for serious advice and help. I have really bad gut feeling my pregnant girlfriend has been cheating on me the past few weeks following bizarre behaviour, being distant, things she has said to me and things I have noticed in her apartment when i have come home from work. Yesterday i came home to find her black bed sheets that we had only put on the previous night clean covered in semen stains all over and her not being in contact with me all day. She also did nothing during the day and was extremely tired when I got home. She also shaved downstairs and rang me about 5.30 to see where I was. When I got in she diverted me away from the bedroom and showed me her shaven downstairs which then led to us having sex and I ejaculated in her on the bed and it was short lived. It was upon getting up from the bed and switching the light on I noticed loads of dried cumstains all over the sheet and this sheet was clean from previous night. These stains are not all mine, no way, no how. Shes trying to say it is but I feel she seduced me in an attempt to cover her tracks. I dont know what to do and I'm looking for advice, any would be greatly appreciated. Edited March 4, 2020 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Removed link to video Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted March 4, 2020 Share Posted March 4, 2020 (edited) Semen stains can require special treatment to remove from fabric, so they may not be new stains. I ruined a dress with them once back in the 80's Why are you ejaculating on the sheet anyway? It's not like she'll get pregnant. Edited March 4, 2020 by basil67 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Petejenkins87 Posted March 4, 2020 Author Share Posted March 4, 2020 (edited) 11 hours ago, basil67 said: Semen stains can require special treatment to remove from fabric, so they may not be new stains. I ruined a dress with them once back in the 80's Why are you ejaculating on the sheet anyway? It's not like she'll get pregnant. They are new stains when we put the sheet on night before it was completely clean. I haven't ejaculated on the sheet I did so inside her she is already pregnant with my child 10 weeks Edited March 4, 2020 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Removed reference to link Link to post Share on other sites
schlumpy Posted March 4, 2020 Share Posted March 4, 2020 You aren't gone so I guess you aren't convinced she dallied. She has raised enough reasonable doubt that you came here. You have probably blown up any chance at getting good solid evidence by confronting her. She will cease her activities until she feels safe again. You could try a DNA analysis of the sheets. Cut off patches of the foreign DNA and have it compared to your own. If you live in an apartment that has cameras then access to the one in your hallway or the front door on the day in question may reveal the perp. Wire up her car with a GPS. Buy a couple of voice activated recorders and place them where she makes phone calls. Her car is always a good place. If you are friends with the neighbors see if they've seen someone coming and going. Use your imagination and try to cultivate some allies. Make damn sure you DNA test the baby. Link to post Share on other sites
oldtruck Posted March 4, 2020 Share Posted March 4, 2020 yes DNA the sheets. that will prove if it was yours or the OM. if not yours then have a paternity DNA test done. no longer have to wait to the birth for it no longer is a risk to the baby. they just take a sample of WGF blood. Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted March 4, 2020 Share Posted March 4, 2020 10 hours ago, Petejenkins87 said: I'm looking for advice, any would be greatly appreciated. Instead of expending all that extra energy, just leave her. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted March 4, 2020 Share Posted March 4, 2020 How do you know they are semen stains? maybe it's discharge from her due to the hormone changes of being pregnant. 2 1 Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 17 hours ago, basil67 said: Semen stains can require special treatment to remove from fabric, so they may not be new stains. I ruined a dress with them once back in the 80's Why are you ejaculating on the sheet anyway? It's not like she'll get pregnant. I bet he said that the sheets were clean. I am sure he would have seen if there were any stains the previous night when they were put on the bed. Also, he said that he did in her. There wouldn’t be anyway for the dried stains to be from him. Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 6 hours ago, smackie9 said: How do you know they are semen stains? maybe it's discharge from her due to the hormone changes of being pregnant. The pattern maybe? It kind of lines up in the direction it was released. Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 17 hours ago, Petejenkins87 said: They are new stains when we put the sheet on night before it was completely clean. I haven't ejaculated on the sheet I did so inside her she is already pregnant with my child 10 weeks I wouldn’t be so sure it’s your child. Get a DNA test done to prove that it’s yours. Link to post Share on other sites
vengfulone Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 Just how many seperate cum stain's are there? Somebody has been busy. And since she was all shaved down there did you see any pubes on your sheet's? Since there are cum stain's on your sheet's. That you know are not from you! Mean's she's not having theses dude's use condom's for STD's. Get a paternity test done and have you checked for thing's can make your penis fall off. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 On 3/4/2020 at 9:31 AM, Petejenkins87 said: I'm looking for serious advice and help. I have really bad gut feeling my pregnant girlfriend has been cheating on me the past few weeks following bizarre behaviour, being distant, things she has said to me and things I have noticed in her apartment when i have come home from work. What else have you noticed? And what are some of these things she has said to you? Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 (edited) 11 hours ago, usa1ah said: The pattern maybe? It kind of lines up in the direction it was released. MAYBE = I'm speculating women do discharge fluids while pregnant and the fact that no one stays in the same position all night says your lines theory is trash. Edited March 5, 2020 by kendahke 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 Pregnant women also lactate (sometimes it's a lot) and would most definitely leave stains if she's sleeping in the nude. Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 2 hours ago, kendahke said: MAYBE = I'm speculating women do discharge fluids while pregnant and the fact that no one stays in the same position all night says your lines theory is trash. I know. My wife and I have 3 kids. I will leave it at that. My theory is not trash as you say. Link to post Share on other sites
DKT3 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 Discharge and lactation doesn't usually happen at 10 weeks. Although stained sheets are hardly proof of cheating. Link to post Share on other sites
oldtruck Posted March 6, 2020 Share Posted March 6, 2020 guessing is a waste of time when he has the sheets and can have them DNA tested. Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted March 6, 2020 Share Posted March 6, 2020 (edited) 2 hours ago, oldtruck said: have them DNA tested. Google search turned up: MicroGEM PDQex ForensicGEM Universal DNA Forensic Extraction Kit From Tissue, Blood, Saliva, Bone and Hair $368.00. A forensic test on the sheets probably would cost more since the sample OP has has degraded by now. OP--stop being cheap--spend some money already and get the sheets tested. Edited March 6, 2020 by kendahke 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted March 6, 2020 Share Posted March 6, 2020 When your gut screams at you listen. Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted March 6, 2020 Share Posted March 6, 2020 Since our new OP's posts in this thread have been edited to remove links I'm going to assume he didn't actually come here for advice but traffic, so....whatever. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted March 6, 2020 Share Posted March 6, 2020 I can’t really blame OP with some of the advice he has been getting. Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted March 9, 2020 Share Posted March 9, 2020 Your girlfriend is obviously cheating on you. DNA the kid when you can, I seriously doubt it is yours. Link to post Share on other sites
crederer Posted March 14, 2020 Share Posted March 14, 2020 You sound a bit paranoid tbh however, quick sex to divert attention is a common tactic along with them refusing to kiss them on the mouth or perform oral sex because they are worried you will be able to smell the other guy. Pretty disgusting but its true. Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted March 15, 2020 Share Posted March 15, 2020 The OP doesn't seal all of the possibilities here. We can't tell whether he/they put clean sheets on "last night" (before bed)... and then he banged her in the night, and came inside of her... and... uh... she didn't leap up at that moment to pee or clean-up, instead... well... (you know)... and then he wakes up in the morning, goes off to his day, and returns to find dried stains. And MAYBE this guy has every bit of it all on camera... maybe he in his own mind takes it for granted that he did this, then that, then the other thing, but not that over there... but we here at LS do NOT have the complete picture, rendering any guesswork we can render to be merely that. Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted March 15, 2020 Share Posted March 15, 2020 3 hours ago, SincereOnlineGuy said: The OP doesn't seal all of the possibilities here. We can't tell whether he/they put clean sheets on "last night" (before bed)... and then he banged her in the night, and came inside of her... and... uh... she didn't leap up at that moment to pee or clean-up, instead... well... (you know)... and then he wakes up in the morning, goes off to his day, and returns to find dried stains. And MAYBE this guy has every bit of it all on camera... maybe he in his own mind takes it for granted that he did this, then that, then the other thing, but not that over there... but we here at LS do NOT have the complete picture, rendering any guesswork we can render to be merely that. Op wasn’t with her til the next day. your assumption has nothing to do with what OP said happened. Link to post Share on other sites
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