I lost my father

[Muhib]

Hi I lost my father on Feb 12 2020 I heard the news while i was coming back from work i live in Dubai i still can't accept it  its  really hard to realize he left this world i don't know how to over come this grief i feel so lost  and helpless my last post on this forum was when i felt strange of losing them and it eventually it happened this year i am having one of the toughest time in my life i even missed his funereal due to delay in flight i just don;t know what to write i am so lost  the thing which makes me feel regret he was waiting for me and i din;t found the right time to come and meet him he was happy with me but i wish i can spend more time with him the most heart  breaking thing is that he was not ill nor he don't have any disease he had heart attack and just in 2 hour he left the world ... i just wish i can see him again i feel so sad and depress i just can't cry in front of my mother i just don't want to make her more depress i am just hiding my feelings as much as possible but inside there is a storm in my heart ,,,,

 

Since this day while post the below thread i was afraid i will lose him and it happened 

 

https://www.loveshack.org/forums/topic/566532-is-it-a-normal-feeling/?tab=comments#comment-7364639

 

 

 

 

[d0nnivain]

I'm a so sorry.  Please accept my condolences. 

They say we never really grow up until our parents die. My mom died in 2011 & my dad followed in 2012.  I felt very alone for a long time afterwards.  Eventually you realize they will always be with you in the good memories you carry.  

 

Hang in there

[FMW]

I'm very sorry for the loss of your father.  I lost my mine almost 4 years ago now.  Everyone's family dynamics are different, but it's possible that expressing the grief that you share with your mother might be helpful for both of you.  Its not just about the sadness, but sharing the happy memories.  

Be patient and nice to yourself while you're going through this.  

[Happy Lemming]

I am sorry to hear of your loss.

I'm facing a similar situation as my father is in the end stages of his life. 

My father taught me so much, we bonded over many activities as I was growing up.  My mother told me I brought great joy to him as he raised me to become a man. 

I'm sure you brought great joy to your father as he watched you become a man and a responsible adult.  I'm sure he was very proud of you, as well!

[alphamale]

So sorry for the loss of your dad.  He will be with you forever.

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

I'm so very sorry, Muhib.  I know your pain, as I too lost my father to a heart attack.  It's so very traumatic to lose someone so suddenly and so unexpectedly, with no chance to say goodbye.  The fact you missed his funeral only adds to your trauma :(.  It will take time, and grief will come in waves at expected and unexpected moments, but my prayer for you is that your happy memories will eventually bear more weight in your soul than your grief, and you will have fewer moments of tears and more smiles when you remember him.  He will always be in your heart, and if you're lucky like me he will visit you in your dreams, too.  He knows you loved him.  ❤️

[K.K.]

I’m sure it must feel like the whole world has stopped for you. I’m really sorry to hear this. So sorry for your loss. 😞  “Grief is the price we pay for love” and it’s a high one. I know it doesn’t seem like it now but the grief will fade in time, yet the love never, ever will. 

[Ellener]

So sorry for your loss and pain @Muhib 

[homesickclutter]

Grief is the last act of love we can give to those we loved. Where there is deep grief, there was great love. No matter how long it's been, there are times when it suddenly becomes harder to breathe...we are sorry for your loss, please accept our condolences.