ZA Dater Posted March 10, 2020 Share Posted March 10, 2020 Is the approach really any different? I have always viewed a hook up being the result of a good date so basically because I have no good dates I never really get much further. Could I hook up without the intellectual connection, not so sure could. Then again the issue once again remains the people I find attractive wont date me so wont hook up with me either. Guys do you change your approach based on looking for a date versus looking for a hook up. Link to post Share on other sites
SumGuy Posted March 10, 2020 Share Posted March 10, 2020 I’d say there is. First be honest you are just looking for casual not a relationship. I’d say it’s going to be harder to get such a date for you if you worry about your appearance and moreover being fun and suave is even more important. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Fletch Lives Posted March 10, 2020 Share Posted March 10, 2020 Most women are looking for love. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 10, 2020 Share Posted March 10, 2020 8 hours ago, ZA Dater said: Is the approach really any different? Guys do you change your approach based on looking for a date versus looking for a hook up. I'm a woman but yes the approach is very different. With a hook up I'd be much more handsy. If I wanted a relationship I'd be more proper & standoffish, warm but not inviting early easy sex. If I wanted a hook up my behavior telegraphed that he wasn't going to hear the word no that night. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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