Why would he avoid eye contact entirely when normally he wouldn't. Is he attracted to me?

[elaine567]

Whether hot or not is irrelevant. "Hot" women also get rejected all the time.
Most women will recognise the signs of a man who is isn't interested and the clever ones will move on.
The OP is invested and so sees signs of interest that aren't there.
Wishful thinking.
If this guy is interested but is emotionally stunted or is playing silly games, then even more reason to not go there.
Living with such men is never easy.
 

[lana-banana]

Speaking as a classics major who is very skilled in the art of reading, writing, text, and subtext, and who has also oh so magnaminously read this thread and other related threads, in all my profound and peerless wisdom I can say with irrefutable scientific certainty that this guy is not interested. He's not shy or embarrassed. He just isn't into you.

[elaine567]

5 minutes ago, ReesePieces said:

There are signs of interest

The man basically blanked you today, sorry to say.

[Mystery4u]

19 hours ago, ReesePieces said:

Yes I would because I've self-control. Rebound relationships are predominantly s*** everyone knows that & if someone isn't ready what sort of a fool would get into a relationship, screw everything up because they aren't ready & then stand there at the end wondering what happened. 

 

And no offense but you seemed to have read one sentence. I said he usually maintains good eye contact. This was a rather odd event on his part. 

You seem to think men and women think the same - they don't.

As a man I can tell you I would never tell a woman I am really interested in 'not now'. Only to one I am not romantically interested in.

And from your further replies you come across very rude and as though you think you are better than others. Very unattractive trait to have, regardless of how many people told you that you are attractive, even the 'wealthy' ones as you put it. Why that even matters I don't know.