Does she like me?

[Martin]

I met a girl in college a while ago. I was always intersested in her, but I never could quite figure out how she felt about me. Sometimes she would be real friendly to me, but then other times she would be kind of aloof. Sometimes I feel that she may have liked me, but then think maybe not. Just when I thought she might be interested, she would do something to make me think otherwise. I just think I'm probably misreading or missing some signals she may be sending me. Can anyone lend some advice that could help me to decide whether or not she is interested? I don't want to persue this relationship if she would rather not.

[Tony T]

For most of your post, you make it sound like you hardly see her except around campus here and there from time to time. Then in the last sentence you characterize it as a relationship. If that's so it's a bizarre one.

 

I'm not the smartest one here so perhaps other will understand. But I'm very sorry I cannot reply until you post more clearly.

 

1. Have you actually met this person?

 

2. Do you date her or have you ever gone on a date with her?

 

3. If you just talk to her once in a while, how often?

 

4. Do you date other people? Does she date other people?

 

5. If you actually go out on dates with her, how long have you been going on dates with her?

 

6. How often do you see her either casually or on dates?

 

7. Do you have a dialogue with her? Are you free to talk to her about issues such as this one?

 

8. You said you met her a while ago. Do you mean a few hours ago, a day ago, a month ago or just how long ago?

 

9. What kinds of things does she do, and in what context of your association with her, to make you think from time to time that she may not be interested?

 

Could you please describe, with some detail, the exactly nature of your contact or relationship with her so we can help you.

 

If you speak to her in riddles like the post above, she may just be in a daze. Speak more clearly to her.

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I met a girl in college a while ago. I was always intersested in her, but I never could quite figure out how she felt about me. Sometimes she would be real friendly to me, but then other times she would be kind of aloof. Sometimes I feel that she may have liked me, but then think maybe not. Just when I thought she might be interested, she would do something to make me think otherwise. I just think I'm probably misreading or missing some signals she may be sending me. Can anyone lend some advice that could help me to decide whether or not she is interested? I don't want to persue this relationship if she would rather not.

I feel like I was going in a circle rereading what you already said. There needs to be more detail to this "relationship" question. I have to agree with Tony's response.