Actionman Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 My girlfriend broke up with me a month and a half ago. She says she's really pissed off at me. Her reason for breaking up was that I didn't show that I was taking any steps towards marriage. She said I had plenty of times to talk and she's tired of waiting. When she broke up with me I said I was ready to settle down. She told me she doesn't want to marry me anymore and that I'm not the man for her. She carries some anger in her life but I want her anyway. She won't talk to me on the phone. I ran into her last week and she said she's still pissed at me and won't talk to me. I bought an engagement ring and want to tell her how I really feel about her. My plan is to see her in church (if she goes) and track her down in the parking lot, demand a few minutes of her time and propose. I'm leary of just showing up at her house (she might not answer) but if I don't see her in church, I don't know what else to do. Any ideas on how I can get her attention and pursued her to marry me? Help! Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 demand a few minutes of her time Back up... You need to think about this.. Proposing is going to make you look like a fool and you will not get the answer you are looking for. Do you really want to be married to this person forever or have you created this "plan" because you don't want to move on ? Link to post Share on other sites
Jayhawks Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 Are you wanting to get married because you are afraid of losing her? This is not a good reason for a lifetime commitment. You need to decide what you want and take the time to make that decision. She is mad because you didn't move the relationship where she wanted it to go so she is punishing you. How long were you two in a relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
brittanyjean259 Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 yeah it seems like after she did this, you wanted to marry her...defently think... because thats immature of her to do...to ingore you...i hate that... if your not ready to get married tell her that...because your probaly not Link to post Share on other sites
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