He stop calling for no reason

[mimi123456]

my boyfriend stop calling me for no reason. He dosen't pick up my calls anymore, he did not even tlet me know he will stop calling me or if is over. what is he tring to say to me? I stop calling and after one month, he call and I did not pick up. After three weeks I call to find out why he called but he did not pick. after two more month he called me and told me he want to come over and talk. Should I let him come and talk with me or what shold I do? was he playing with my feelings. He knows my weakness and he is my first and he knows it.

[Jtizzle]

dont let him bring u down girly..leave him bee..if you were important to him as a girlfriend should be to a bf, then he would make time to call u, even if it is for two minutes or just to say hey, bye,etc...ive been thru the same situation where i was in a long distance relationship, dude went a month without callin, so i just gave up the fight..no sense in crying over spilt milk..be a woman about yours and forget him, and move on to someone who will make time to call you and love you,etc

 

 

goodluck;)

[gevoraksix]

mimi123456 ,

If you haven't heard from him in 2 months I highly doubt he is still your boyfriend.

Or wants to be.

Unless you had a huge fight or he has been busy.

But I don't see how he could be that busy for 2months.

 

You cared /care about him ,and he abandoned you,without a bye ,nothing.

Your first or not you don't need this person in your life .

You sound young move on,if you need to say goodbye see him then.

If you will be weak tell him on the phone "no thanks"i haven't heard from you in whatever time I have moved on!

 

"Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved." -- William Jennings Bryan

[spicybrown]

my boyfriend stop calling me for no reason. He dosen't pick up my calls anymore, he did not even tlet me know he will stop calling me or if is over. what is he tring to say to me? I stop calling and after one month, he call and I did not pick up. After three weeks I call to find out why he called but he did not pick. after two more month he called me and told me he want to come over and talk. Should I let him come and talk with me or what shold I do? was he playing with my feelings. He knows my weakness and he is my first and he knows it.

He's preying on your weaknes, and also trying to control you/the relationship. When he calls, let him know you can talk when you have something to let him know. Don't put yourself out there as needy. You're buying into his game. Obviously he has something to hide, so gaurd your body and heart. Focus on yourself. When you're hurting, other men can pick up on that, so free your mind and heal, then make yourself available to more worthy men. Raise your standards a lil'. If you spray the same perfume every morning, you'll only get the same scent. You can possibly write him a letter and have him communicate that way. Some guys get lockjaw when it comes to emotions. If you still get no reciprocity, then, sweetie, it's time to keep it movin'

[slubberdegullion]

Mimi;

 

He may be playing you, but it is possible that you're reading too much unto this. (See the post about A Mistake Almost All Women Make With Men) Did you and he speak every day previously to this? Were you always calling him, or he always calling you? More info is needed to really offer a proper assessment.

[mimi123456]

Thank all of your advise, this will really help me a lot. But how do I get over him,I started seeing this new guy, but all I do is to compare him to him. How do I stop that? He still calls me, should I tell him to stop calling because he said he really needs to talk (he said he loves me), is he lying?