Insight on why young girls like older guys

[Azincourt]

10 minutes ago, simpycurious said:

I think this is my cue to take the puppy for a walk and maybe get an ice cream.  Azin, I DO NOT want a lady spending ANY money on me.  If ask for the date, I pay for

the date.....kinda that simple for me. 

First thing I noticed when I landed in Europe from California - women have  no qualms approaching guys, and they don't expect guys to pay for anything.

When you ask them out, they also don't expect you to pay for anything or to pick her up in your car. Heck, most of them don't even expect you to have a car because walking everywhere on foot is the standard.

Socialist European Countries, man.  Who'd ever imagine heaven is a place on earth.

Edited March 27, 2020 by Azincourt

[jspice]

2 hours ago, simpycurious said:

I think this is my cue to take the puppy for a walk and maybe get an ice cream.  Azin, I DO NOT want a lady spending ANY money on me.  If ask for the date, I pay for

the date.....kinda that simple for me. 

Seriously. I metaphorically walk my dog when I read the same response in every post. 
 

Im with you. I ask and I pay. You ask you pay. 
if he’s  going to be so low level as to take me for water and board games and then I have to go home with him ... 🤣

I can buy myself a steak but if you’re going to go out of your way to NOT treat me to a reasonably priced meal you can enjoy your water by yourself. 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Young men have little to no social status; it kills me when I talk to older people who have grown children and they talk about why they don't have Grand Children... Like, as a parent, if you make no effort to ensure your sons have social status and they aren't a genetic catch, what do you expect? I live in a small town and every guy I know that drove a brand new vehicle as a teenager has kids, whether they wanted kids or not... Social status is a really big factor when it comes to dating; most men do not develop into their peak social status well into their thirties, obviously this is a contextual thing, some people mature faster than others, but if your son is not a genetic catch and you've made no attempt to give them social status, don't expect to have Grand Children, because the older men are going to scoop up the younger ones with their social status.

That is the great thing about being a man in the dating scene, I can date younger women or older women, where as women, they are predisposed to social status and most young men do not have social status, so rarely do I have any actual competition when it comes to dating younger women, other then men my own age. As a woman, because of this, your options in the dating scene are severely restricted once you reach a certain age; you expect a man to have a career, a house, yadda yadda, a younger man won't have any of this.

[basil67]

OK, I'll bite: how does one give their son social status?

[Blind-Sided]

Hi all,

While I appreciate all input and comments... this isn't a thread in the "Dating" section.  This girl and I are WAY past the standard dating stage. Money is being spent in both directions... and as an adult, I will spend my money as I wish. @Azincourt in the last couple days... all I have heard form you... on a BUNCH of threads... is to not spend money.  That's fine if you are cheap... but since that question was not asked here, and it's off topic, please keep that line of conversation to a minimum. Thanks.

BUT... since we are talking about that... we have been going out for a few months now. Many of those dates were simply getting together and going to a local used book store. AND... she bought me stuff. We have hung out a friends houses... and walked around the local mall. (When I needed some new clothes) So... the vast majority of our dates were not "Dates" in the normal sense.  I didn't even give her, "The first Kiss" until just a little over a week ago. SO, most of the hanging out was as friends, and getting to know each other better.

For the comment about keeping it simple, and cooking... to me, that's a very personal thing as a one-on-one date, since it would be alone at one of our houses.  But, since we are now in the middle of the COVID19 thing... we don't have much choice, since all of the local restaurants/bars are closed.  I made her a nice pasta dinner last night... and then around 11pm... she made me a gilled cheese sandwich in her underwear. (lol)  At that point I told her I was never letting her go. A pretty young girl, sex and a grilled cheese is a powerful combination !!! LOL.

Edited March 28, 2020 by Blind-Sided

[SummerDreams]

@Blind-Sided I just finished reading your story about how you separated from your wife and I got emotional about how she treated you, I'm sorry for what you went through but I'm happy that you are such a good person and that you seem to have gotten over this and looking into your bright future. I wish you the best mate. Stay healthy and safe.

(maybe it's time you change your nickname to Bright-Sighted :P)

[Blind-Sided]

@SummerDreams thanks for the kind words. It really is very uplifting. Thank you.  Yes, my divorce was very rough, and a mental challenge. That's why it took so long to even feel right to kiss someone new. (despite trying not to with this girl)  It was actually a topic last night. (why I tried to just stay friends, and why I decided to finally kiss her)

As far as the nickname... I think it will stay the same.  It will help me remember where I came from.

[K.K.]

“Insight on why young girls like older guys”

I’m not sure about the “young girls” thing. Sounds kind of seedy but I know what you meant. 😁 Now, younger ‘women’ that’s all relative too isn’t it? To how actually old that he is. A woman of 40 is a younger woman to a 50- 60 year old. A 20 year old to a 35 year old. Same. 

I’m not a young girl, but am still younger to some men, of course. I have been the young girl though and know what younger girls see in older men. Even what older younger women see in older men. IMO from my own views and thoughts of it. 

They see a man that views her in the light of fantasy. All of the things that make her outwardly beautiful are still very much on display. They’re appreciative of her and she knows this. She doesn’t have to compete with the younger woman, because she is the younger woman. There’s not as much power play because it’s not even on the same level. He’s more respected in her eyes, having the wisdom of having lived longer. This makes it easier for her to treat him with better care than maybe she would someone of the same age that could potentially irritate her and try to be too mentally taxing. 

The older man can offer her stability. Most of the time, the flighty ways of youth are behind him so he makes a more solid partner. It feels almost as if you’re put on a pedestal as a younger woman. He knows he’s lucky to have her and acts accordingly. Yes, lucky because if you remember from reading here, sex is a number 1 priority for (most) men like it or not. Who is better to be sexual with than a younger, still beautiful, willing, ready, and very able woman?

Younger women seek stability first and foremost, I think. Less drama. Less bullsht. It’s an experience. A chance to live ahead of their age. It’s fun. It’s exciting. She knows that if they stay together, that he would most likely always consider himself lucky. Giving her a leg up on the relationship. Everyone wants that leg up even if they deny it. Nobody wants to be the one left in the dirt. I also think that even though joked about and often seen in a negative light that the “daddy issues” are a very real thing. Every woman (that seeks this kind of relationship) wants to win that approval IMO when seeking an older man. 

The problem can arise with the coming of the years. As time goes by, the man will get older and instead of seeming virile and attractive, they may turn into grandpa with the limp dick and prostate problems while she will still be younger and at an advantage. Even though she is also older than she was. It’s always going to be a relationship to her advantage.

This dynamic is even worse in the older woman/ younger man scenario. Fun for a time. But not lasting, in my eyes. She’s going to get old looking and haggard. The man is very visual from what I understand and this will go badly for her. Her view of herself will suffer. If he stays, it’s most likely out of some sort of obligation. And in the times when he’s alone and hot and seeking self gratification,  he’ll most likely be thinking of that hard bodied 20 year old woman. Tell me I’m wrong. Maybe I’m just cynical.   

Any man going into this kind of relationship should have fun and ride the wave of the adoration that she rains down on you. But you need to be aware that it’s rarely lasting so plan accordingly and don’t waste valuable time living this particular fantasy if what you really want is a stabile marriage with each on the same level of comfort in the thang. Sure there are exceptions like in everything else in life. But in general, not an easy row to hoe in the long run. 

 

 

[Blind-Sided]

@K.K.

Wow... that's exactly what I was thinking, and you put out there perfectly. Thanks.

[simpycurious]

11 hours ago, Blind-Sided said:

Hi all,

While I appreciate all input and comments... this isn't a thread in the "Dating" section.  This girl and I are WAY past the standard dating stage. Money is being spent in both directions... and as an adult, I will spend my money as I wish. @Azincourt in the last couple days... all I have heard form you... on a BUNCH of threads... is to not spend money.  That's fine if you are cheap... but since that question was not asked here, and it's off topic, please keep that line of conversation to a minimum. Thanks.

BUT... since we are talking about that... we have been going out for a few months now. Many of those dates were simply getting together and going to a local used book store. AND... she bought me stuff. We have hung out a friends houses... and walked around the local mall. (When I needed some new clothes) So... the vast majority of our dates were not "Dates" in the normal sense.  I didn't even give her, "The first Kiss" until just a little over a week ago. SO, most of the hanging out was as friends, and getting to know each other better.

For the comment about keeping it simple, and cooking... to me, that's a very personal thing as a one-on-one date, since it would be alone at one of our houses.  But, since we are now in the middle of the COVID19 thing... we don't have much choice, since all of the local restaurants/bars are closed.  I made her a nice pasta dinner last night... and then around 11pm... she made me a gilled cheese sandwich in her underwear. (lol)  At that point I told her I was never letting her go. A pretty young girl, sex and a grilled cheese is a powerful combination !!! LOL.

Spend the money Blind cause you are rocking it right now.  I am so happy for you.  You deserve to have a great time and enjoy your life.  As far as Azincourt is concerned, I am sure he is a solid dude but he honestly lost me when started all the "cheap" jargon.  I just can't go with that.  My problem is that I can't cook but I am darn GOOD at ordering or going out as in EXCELLENT....LOL

Keep us posted on how things progress Blind and I wish you nothing but the best

[Blind-Sided]

23 hours ago, K.K. said:

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The problem can arise with the coming of the years. As time goes by, the man will get older and instead of seeming virile and attractive, they may turn into grandpa with the limp dick and prostate problems while she will still be younger and at an advantage. Even though she is also older than she was. It’s always going to be a relationship to her advantage.

...

This was a topic of last night.  (ironically)  Although I've been the one asking "What does a young girl see in an old guy"...  while lying in bed last night... I was telling her how pretty she is, and she looked at me and said... "You know... I'm going to get old, and I won't always be pretty." (in a VERY serious way)  At that point... this post popped into my head, and I kind of laughed to myself.  But... at that point... I just said... "By that time, I will most likely be dead."

As far as the limp dick... well... I guess that's a real concern. But, there's some meds that can help with that. But I can say this... my kids have been with the exW since Thursday night... and in those 3 evenings... I have made up for the year (+) that it's been since I've been with a woman. In our conversations between rounds... she told me that her last SO would only last a couple minutes, and wouldn't even hardly touch her.  (sad that some guys just care about their own O) At that point, I went from worrying about my "Old guy" performance, to feeling like a champ.

12 hours ago, simpycurious said:

My problem is that I can't cook but I am darn GOOD at ordering or going out as in EXCELLENT....LOL

Keep us posted on how things progress Blind and I wish you nothing but the best

Ordering is just fine with me. LOL. Honestly... if the effort is made to put something yummy in front of me... it will be appreciated.  

She came over again last night, and I cooked her dinner. I grew up in an Italian family, and the boys were taught to "Cook" before the girls were. (The girls learned to bake) We actually talked about that last night.  I told her that when I was young (mid 20's) we would have dinner parties with my friends. I told her I would make all kinds of things, and they all loved when we would do that, opposed to just going out drinking. I then told her my mother actually gave me my Norataki china back then. (and I showed her the set) She said... "What boy would want a china set???"  (in a joking manner) She does cook, but she said it's mostly safe and/or slow cooker kinds of things.   As you may have noticed in one of earlier posts... a couple nights ago, I said I was hungry after finishing a round in bed... and she got up, and made me a grilled cheese. (in her underwear) I told her that she couldn't even understand how that made me feel inside.

While the last 3 nights have been absolutely awesome, and my junk feels like it's totally warn out... my kids will be back today, and unfortunately... her company is re-opening. She is totally stressed about it.  But because of that... she won't be coming to visit.  She doesn't want to possibly infect me or my kids.  I'm very sad, but I'm a big boy, and this COVID thing is a reality.

Well... I hear someone stirring back in the bedroom... I guess it's time for me to cook some breakfast. :0)

Thanks for listening everyone.

Edited March 29, 2020 by Blind-Sided

[simpycurious]

17 minutes ago, Blind-Sided said:

This was a topic of last night.  (ironically)  Although I've been the one asking "What does a young girl see in an old guy"...  while lying in bed last night... I was telling her how pretty she is, and she looked at me and said... "You know... I'm going to get old, and I won't always be pretty." (in a VERY serious way)  At that point... this post popped into my head, and I kind of laughed to myself.  But... at that point... I just said... "By that time, I will most likely be dead."

As far as the limp dick... well... I guess that's a real concern. But, there's some meds that can help with that. But I can say this... my kids have been with the exW since Thursday night... and in those 3 evenings... I have made up for the year (+) that it's been since I've been with a woman. In our conversations between rounds... she told me that her last SO would only last a couple minutes, and wouldn't even hardly touch her.  (sad that some guys just care about their own O) At that point, I went from worrying about my "Old guy" performance, to feeling like a champ.

Ordering is just fine with me. LOL. Honestly... if the effort is made to put something yummy in front of me... it will be appreciated.  

She came over again last night, and I cooked her dinner. I grew up in an Italian family, and the boys were taught to "Cook" before the girls were. (The girls learned to bake) We actually talked about that last night.  I told her that when I was young (mid 20's) we would have dinner parties with my friends. I told her I would make all kinds of things, and they all loved when we would do that, opposed to just going out drinking. I then told her my mother actually gave me my Norataki china back then. (and I showed her the set) She said... "What boy would want a china set???"  (in a joking manner) She does cook, but she said it's mostly safe and/or slow cooker kinds of things.   As you may have noticed in one of earlier posts... a couple nights ago, I said I was hungry after finishing a round in bed... and she got up, and made me a grilled cheese. (in her underwear) I told her that she couldn't even understand how that made me feel inside.

While the last 3 nights have been absolutely awesome, and my junk feels like it's totally warn out... my kids will be back today, and unfortunately... her company is re-opening. She is totally stressed about it.  But because of that... she won't be coming to visit.  She doesn't want to possibly infect me or my kids.  I'm very sad, but I'm a big boy, and this COVID thing is a reality.

Well... I hear someone stirring back in the bedroom... I guess it's time for me to cook some breakfast. :0)

Thanks for listening everyone.

Well, it is the complete opposite for me.  We always had a Nanny who along with my Mom always did the cooking.  So, I was not involved and at the time not a big deal but now I would enjoy being have the "skill set" to prepare a cool meal for someone.  I have decided to make some Culinary Classes so we shall see. I would not worry about anything too many years down the road. Focus on enjoying your time now and see where the adventure takes you..DON'T FORGET about living NOW/THE PRESENT because you are focused on the FUTURE.  I have said before....I am happy for you.

[Blind-Sided]

On ‎3‎/‎24‎/‎2020 at 11:11 PM, SincereOnlineGuy said:

... And the   (slight connection at age 21 or so)  does NOT matter to any contributing underlying psychology I was searching for.

 

OK... just have to throw this out there... because we both laughed at it.  Since she now has to go back to work on Monday... we shouldn't have visits, but she said we could just face time each other.  I said great, and then I told her to grab my iPad and make sure her contact info was in it.  Well... I use Android devices now... but back then, I was iPhone.  BUT... I guess my iPad still grabbed all my old contacts since it's linked to my old iTunes account.  She looked up at me with a huge grin and said... "I'm already in here."  My response was "really?"   Then she showed me the screen and it said her name, and below it said "XYZ's daughter from work, for babysitting."  (I guess this makes it every man's dream of 'Doing the babysitter'. LOL)

Edited March 29, 2020 by Blind-Sided

[simpycurious]

1 hour ago, Blind-Sided said:

OK... just have to throw this out there... because we both laughed at it.  Since she now has to go back to work on Monday... we shouldn't have visits, but she said we could just face time each other.  I said great, and then I told her to grab my iPad and make sure her contact info was in it.  Well... I use Android devices now... but back then, I was iPhone.  BUT... I guess my iPad still grabbed all my old contacts since it's linked to my old iTunes account.  She looked up at me with a huge grin and said... "I'm already in here."  My response was "really?"   Then she showed me the screen and it said her name, and below it said "XYZ's daughter from work, for babysitting."  (I guess this makes it every man's dream of 'Doing the babysitter'. LOL)

or it's DESTINY......as in it was destined to happen.  Blind think of the POSITIVES bro.  

[2.50 a gallon]

I think I need to add my experience

A couple of decades back I was in similar shoes.  Mid-30's and this 20 year old college drop out took an interest in me.  I told her she was too young for me and I would never be interested in a loser college drop out.  She was extremely sexy and had never had a man turn her down.  She immediately re-registered for college.  Still I refused, which led to a confrontation with her mother. 
To the effect of please have sex with my daughter as you have gotten her back into college.  Oh I was interested, as she had fold out material looks, my worry was getting too deeply involved.  We got into a relationship, and she wanted to marry.  The jist of which was I agreed to marry her once she graduated from college. 

She was an awesome gal, we had lots of fun and had lots in common.  Even though there was about a 16 year difference in ages. 

First Christmas, we buy a tree and as I am getting it to stand in the holder, she disappears into the bedroom and comes out in this black see thru thingy with high heels and stockings.  She mixes me a drink and lights me a cigar and say just watch for a while, while she stooped down to pick up ornaments, or leaned into the tree to string the lights.

Then came the time I had hernia surgery, I went in early in the morning, was supposed to be out and home by early afternoon, but the cops got into a shoot out with the bad guys so in need of emergency room my surgery was put off until late afternoon.  When woke up I was in need of help, first to urinate, they wanted me to squeeze my muscle and whiz in a bottle, I was cold, I was hungry, they had this horrible cold cheese casserole they wanted me to eat, yuck, and worst of all as a smoker my mom had had them put me into a non-smoking room.  I was in misery. until my 20 year old college student girl friend showed up, she took over, found me a nurse and the two of them walked me to a bathroom.  They argued with her about it being a non-smoking room, and she told them where to get off being as I  was a 20 year smoker, she grabbed a blanket from another bed, found me something to eat and got me a soda.  All in a matter of minutes.  In short she had my back when I needed her the most.  

So four years later when she graduated from college with her degree in electronics, it was up to me to step up an marry her,  Which I did.  Six months later to the day, I went by where she worked to have a surprise lunch with her on our anniversary and caught her in the arms of a company guard.  I was not surprised as we had been fighting since the day we got back home from our honey moon.  

 

         

Edited April 1, 2020 by 2.50 a gallon
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[SummerDreams]

25 minutes ago, 2.50 a gallon said:

I think I need to add my experience

A couple of decades back I was in similar shoes.  Mid-30's and this 20 year old college drop out took an interest in me.  I told her she was too young for me and I would never be interested in a loser college drop out.  She was extremely sexy and had never had a man turn her down.  She immediately re-registered for college.  Still I refused, which led to a confrontation with her mother. 
To the effect of please have sex with my daughter as you have gotten her back into college.  Oh I was interested, as she had fold out material looks, my worry was getting too deeply involved.  We got into a relationship, and she wanted to marry.  The jist of which was I agreed to marry her once she graduated from college. 

She was an awesome gal, we had lots of fun and had lots in common.  Even though there was about a 16 year difference in ages. 

First Christmas, we buy a tree and as I am getting it to stand in the holder, she disappears into the bedroom and comes out in this black see thru thingy with high heels and stockings.  She mixes me a drink and lights me a cigar and say just watch for a while, while she stooped down to pick up ornaments, or leaned into the tree to string the lights.

Then came the time I had hernia surgery, I went in early in the morning, was supposed to be out and home by early afternoon, but the cops got into a shoot out with the bad guys so in need of emergency room my surgery was put off until late afternoon.  When woke up I was in need of help, first to urinate, they wanted me to squeeze my muscle and whiz in a bottle, I was cold, I was hungry, they had this horrible cold cheese casserole they wanted me to eat, yuck, and worst of all as a smoker my mom had had them put me into a non-smoking room.  I was in misery. until my 20 year old college student girl friend showed up, she took over, found me a nurse and the two of them walked me to a bathroom.  They argued with her about it being a non-smoking room, and she told them where to get off being as I  was a 20 year smoker, she grabbed a blanket from another bed, found me something to eat and got me a soda.  All in a matter of minutes.  In short she had my back when I needed her the most.  

So four years later when she graduated from college with her degree in electronics, it was up to me to step up an marry her,  Which I did.  Six months later to the day, I went by where she worked to have a surprise lunch with her on our anniversary and caught her in the arms of a company guard.  I was not surprised as we had been fighting since the day we got back home from our honey moon.          

Sorry I'm confused. Was there a point in your story? The point being that younger women will have your back until they cheat? That she cheated because she was younger? That you should have trusted your gut and your head and stay away from such a young girl? I'm not following...

[stillafool]

2.50 Gallon, I know 60 year old women who would have taken care of you even better when you were in the hospital.  I don't understand your point in your post either.

[mark clemson]

@Blind-Sided it very much sounds like you have "upgraded" and made some very sweet lemonade out of the lemons you were handed. Congrats!

[Blind-Sided]

@mark clemson Thanks. never in a million years did I think I would feel happy again like this.  I figured I would find a girl that was nice, and we would get along, but I was unsure of anything deeper. Sure, i'm happy with my kids, and friends.  But this is a bit euphoric. Not to mention... the physical part is better than even when I was in my 20's. She enjoys being with me, and looking at me, and kissing me.  My exW, it was always just basic in bed.

I'm not sure if it will last... or if we are just in the passion stage of things... but as I said earlier... she has helped me move forward, and truly enjoy who I am. 

Oh... one more thing... on Saturday evening... I was talking to her about my surgery, (The scar is on "The boys") and how my youngest daughter was the one who was really helping me recover... and how the nurse in the recovery area was nicer to me than my exW was (We were still married at the time) this girl was actually crying because she felt bad for the way the exW treated me during it.  She has a warm heart, and I really hope it will last with her.

[2.50 a gallon]

Sorry, I was hurried to finish last night, and have not been able to get back since. 

There are several points.  First when we met I had a very active sex life, with lots of partners and all knew not to try to be exclusive.  With my Ex, she wanted to be exclusive right from the beginning.  As an example, she wanted a key, I gave her one, with the rule that if a certain statue was in the window, be warned I am probably having sex with some one else.  A couple of months in she came in anyway and started to fuss, I told her she could get mad and leave or she could come back to the bedroom and join in.  I didn't car.

We weren't even exclusive and she was already talking about marriage.  I was the only one of a dozen grand children who could pass on the family name and that worried. I was in my 30's so was facing a lot of family pressure, grandmother, parents, uncles and aunts, to marry and continue the family name.  My thoughts were If I have to choose just one single sex partner I might as well choose the hottest one.  For about 3 and half years she pressured us to get married.  And it seemed almost the minute she won and got her marriage degree, she lost all interest in me and did a total change.  I was surprised how quickly she changed, it was almost over night.  The fighting began right from the honey moon, and ended when I caught her with the guard on our anniversary.  When I kicked her out she moved in with the guy.   

Odd thing is she came by to get the last of her things abouI 2 week later and realized that I had not slept alone the previous night, and was once again totally in love with me.          

[2.50 a gallon]

Sex and old age.

We had a very active sex life, at that time I could still last for hours.  With her, we were able to get her into this space where she would have rolling big O's.  That is full O's with in a  minute after the previous one.  15 to 20 years later all of that changed when old age hit me.  Had we still been together I am sure the marriage would have ended there.  Blue pill or not, your body breaks down and where once I could go at it for over half the night, all at once, after just a few minutes, I crawling into the kiddy wading pool and begging for mercy give me a break . 

I have continued with my ways with younger women.  I am just about 10 years older than my current lady of over 20 years.  About the time my sex life began to decline she was diagnosed with pre-cancer of her girly parts and had all of her puppy machine removed.  But Had I still been with my Ex I am sure with even with the blue pill, I would not have been able to perform     

[SummerDreams]

Alrught so your advise to the OP is that in X years he won't be able to keep up with his GF sexually?

[simpycurious]

1 hour ago, 2.50 a gallon said:

Sex and old age.

We had a very active sex life, at that time I could still last for hours.  With her, we were able to get her into this space where she would have rolling big O's.  That is full O's with in a  minute after the previous one.  15 to 20 years later all of that changed when old age hit me.  Had we still been together I am sure the marriage would have ended there.  Blue pill or not, your body breaks down and where once I could go at it for over half the night, all at once, after just a few minutes, I crawling into the kiddy wading pool and begging for mercy give me a break . 

I have continued with my ways with younger women.  I am just about 10 years older than my current lady of over 20 years.  About the time my sex life began to decline she was diagnosed with pre-cancer of her girly parts and had all of her puppy machine removed.  But Had I still been with my Ex I am sure with even with the blue pill, I would not have been able to perform     

Don't discourage Blind.  Why is it so important to think of the "what if's" or "what could's"???????  They guy is having a great time with someone he genuinely seems to enjoy. Life is short regardless of your age and isn't it important to ENJOY your time?  Blind, just ENJOY.

[SummerDreams]

23 minutes ago, simpycurious said:

Don't discourage Blind.  Why is it so important to think of the "what if's" or "what could's"???????  They guy is having a great time with someone he genuinely seems to enjoy. Life is short regardless of your age and isn't it important to ENJOY your time?  Blind, just ENJOY.

I think that's unfair and a little naive if I may add. Every poster has the right to share their opinion and that's why someone creates a thread. Someone's experience and mistakes may be helpful to someone else. Other than that in my opinion life is not only supposed to be about having fun; sure, the OP now is enjoying his life and he more than deserves it and he should know I personally wholeheartedly support him and like him a lot, but what happens if this woman gets pregnant? Then life is not about having fun anymore, there will be responsibilities. So it's good and right in my opinion that the OP is aware about what a relationship between two people with such big age difference may bring.

[simpycurious]

17 minutes ago, SummerDreams said:

I think that's unfair and a little naive if I may add. Every poster has the right to share their opinion and that's why someone creates a thread. Someone's experience and mistakes may be helpful to someone else. Other than that in my opinion life is not only supposed to be about having fun; sure, the OP now is enjoying his life and he more than deserves it and he should know I personally wholeheartedly support him and like him a lot, but what happens if this woman gets pregnant? Then life is not about having fun anymore, there will be responsibilities. So it's good and right in my opinion that the OP is aware about what a relationship between two people with such big age difference may bring.

Oh myyyyyyyyyyyyy....Of course, everyone is entitled to their own opinion and 2.50 is a great poster. "Don't discourage Blind" was just a cheeky comment.  Who said anything about the lady getting pregnant?  Life is meant to be FUN  at least I believe it is.