Friend Unblocks You on Facebook Messenger Does it Mean a Possible Reconciliation Soon?

[Oceanwoman]

I am a christian and have Asperger Syndrome bear in mind. Two years ago, I had met a great friend on Linkedin, let's call her "J". She was a god sent. J and I would spent hours talking to each other about our faith, our shared common interests and family life and even assist her with tips in customer service her new job as a local resteraunt manager She even provide me with networking opportunities at her company (which was also my dream company)
Things when south when i started getting clingy, blowing up her phone because of fear of facing trauma after an incident involving the HR manager where i thought i had missed the interview a few months earlier and also due to my own childhood trauma and hold over issues from a previous toxic friendship with some with NPD.

The last times we spoke i told her i needed time to focus more on my healing, career and other projects. However she later started doing the slow fade on me then.

In our last interaction she just told me "Enjoy moving into your new season" then blocked me on Linkedin and her main facebook account. Last year on new years day i sent her a new years message on her public facebook account and she just said "happy new year" and blocked me on messenger but not the account itself.

About 4 months later i did repent to God for my idolatry and other sins in the friendship and helped me put my life back together and to heal(started attending church meetings to learn about self esteem, self worth, prayer and fasting, communication skills, boundaries forgiveness and reconciliation,elimaniting ungodly soulties) followed through on many of the promises I made, got a new job( at a different company), followed my dreams, traveled, made new friends ( helped me to overcome my anxiety)., faced the HR manager and the childhood trauma, wrote more poetry learn to deal with conflict and journaling. However in December I noticed J had unblocked me on Facebook messenger on her public account but not the other account and Linkedin (atleast not yet).
Does this mean that J is keeping an open mind to the possibility of a reconcilliation at some point or should i messege J to make amends and tell of all the changes God made in my life? But I am worried she may block me again what should I do? Or this maybe a breadcrumb or a test from her to see how I react if she relax the boundary

[schlumpy]

You've had 4 months to get over the feelings. Why reopen the box again? Why go back to zero when if she rejects you again? Did you like the feeling?

I suggest that you wait until she contacts you. Then you will know for certain.

[preraph]

Why would you keep wanting to talk to someone who blocked you and got you out of her life?  Honestly, it was probably nothing but a slip up that she unblocked you.  If she wanted to talk to you, she knows where to find you.  It doesn't sound like she does, and it sounds like you were too high maintenance for her, so I would say just leave her alone.  I mean, how obsessed is it that you kept checking to see if you were still blocked?  That's stalker behavior.  Please stop it. 

Edited March 24, 2020 by preraph

[JTSW]

On 3/24/2020 at 11:19 AM, Oceanwoman said:

I noticed J had unblocked me on Facebook messenger on her public account but not the other account and Linkedin (atleast not yet).

Do you check this on a regular basis? 

On 3/24/2020 at 11:19 AM, Oceanwoman said:

should i messege J

No. If she wanted to talk to you she would have.

But she hasn't, so do just start blowing up her phone again with messages.

Leave it be.

You honestly sound obssessed with this woman.

Edited April 3, 2020 by JTSW

[healing light]

No, I would not recommend contacting her or telling her about any of these changes. She knows where to find you and how to get in touch with you if she wants to. If you contact her, I suspect you will be blocked again. Let her come to you if she chooses to do so. 

Edited April 3, 2020 by healing light