blpickett88 Posted March 24, 2020 Share Posted March 24, 2020 (edited) Hello, there's this guy I was with 6 years ago, though I broke up with him after a month. He was on leave from the army and went back to base in another state. After 2 weeks, he disappeared on me completely and wouldn't talk to me unless I kept messaging him. Fast forward 6 years and he just messaged me last saturday night. After I dont know how many months of not talking. Maybe 4-5 months. But of course, he talks about sex. But he didnt talk about just sex. We talked about the past and how hes regretting not staying with me instead of disappearing. He said fear took over him and was afraid hed fail to provide for us someheow. I told him he could be honest and that he just wasnt as interested in me as i was him. He told me that he actually was interested but just was too afraid. Im not sure i believe that. He did have a hard year with his dads illness and death and the way i acted toward him during all of that and feels bad about not being so nice to me. But i cant blame him because i wasnt being respectful of him and that left us on bad terms for a good 4 years but everything finally calmed a couple years ago. But the thing Im wondering is, why he would ask for a second chance then go a day without talking to me(Sunday) and monday morning, he messaged me "good morning(hug emoji) I was off my phone yesterday. Hope you had a good rest of the weekend" And i just said good morning and you too. But he never opened my "good morning" reply? Why did he talk to me all saturday night, then not talk to me sunday, and send me one message monday and not talk the rest of the day? Edited March 25, 2020 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Paragraphs Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted March 24, 2020 Share Posted March 24, 2020 Oh c'mon... If the gender roles were reversed... it would be a woman... having gone back through her little black book... only so that she could get some without having to do further damage to "her number". Now this clown doesn't care about his number... but it's a safe bet that he doesn't care about you either. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted March 25, 2020 Share Posted March 25, 2020 20 hours ago, blpickett88 said: But the thing Im wondering is, why he would ask for a second chance then go a day Did he actually come out and ask for a second chance, though? I see that you talked abut the past and his regrets, but did he explicitly tell you he wants another shot? Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted March 25, 2020 Share Posted March 25, 2020 On 3/24/2020 at 2:09 PM, blpickett88 said: But of course, he talks about sex. Booty call I guess, especially as he was not that talkative in the clear light of day. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted March 25, 2020 Share Posted March 25, 2020 Because he was drunk and horny Saturday night, maybe? He may have just either broken up with or failed to entice some woman and just needed ego validation from someone who used to beg to be with him. I certainly wouldn't trust it. And certainly sex is the number one goal. Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted March 26, 2020 Share Posted March 26, 2020 What do you hope the outcome of finding out will be? Link to post Share on other sites
2BGoodAgain Posted March 26, 2020 Share Posted March 26, 2020 prob in a lonely or horny or something mood... then he wasn't... you hear from him when he is... you don't when he doesn't need you. Link to post Share on other sites
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