ShyGal78 Posted March 26, 2020 Share Posted March 26, 2020 Yesterday a guy I am getting to know sort of out of the blue - he's given indication he likes me - caught me entirely off guard with some serious eye contact. Intense. Not from a distance but within touching distance. I met that eye contact for let's say 30-60 seconds & then, stupidly, instead of smiling or something said the 1st thing that came to mind. Had I had my wits more about me I would have had a different response than that. Just wondering if I screwed up? (78 isn't my birth year, I'm younger). What do guys think of gals that meet their eye contact like that? How can I 'clarify' things with him? Link to post Share on other sites
SumGuy Posted March 26, 2020 Share Posted March 26, 2020 It’s just eye contact. If he is so fickle or insecure for such a thing to make or break him later days. conversation is a great way to clarify things, flirting also works if you are trying to give him signals to ask you out for most guys if he is into you, your reaction is fine...in fact being nervous can be cute, on both your parts Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted March 26, 2020 Share Posted March 26, 2020 If you held eye contact with him for 30-60 seconds there's no doubt in his mind that you are interested. What did you say to him? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ShyGal78 Posted March 26, 2020 Author Share Posted March 26, 2020 1 hour ago, SumGuy said: It’s just eye contact. If he is so fickle or insecure for such a thing to make or break him later days. conversation is a great way to clarify things, flirting also works if you are trying to give him signals to ask you out for most guys if he is into you, your reaction is fine...in fact being nervous can be cute, on both your parts Unless I'm reading him wrong I doubt he isn't into me. A number of guys around here are... but he's the one I'm interested in. As for nervous, yeah I was nervous. Was still feeling a bit frazzled when we ran into one another later on. 2 hours ago, stillafool said: If you held eye contact with him for 30-60 seconds there's no doubt in his mind that you are interested. What did you say to him? Something ridiculously out of place. I had been seeking him out for something when we ran into one another & just spouted out what I was after after this staring. Link to post Share on other sites
Blind-Sided Posted March 26, 2020 Share Posted March 26, 2020 You are fine. I would expect a shy girl to find a reason to break eye contact... and a dumb/silly/off topic comment would be it. As a guy... if you weren't interested at all... you would have looked away, and rolled your eyes. (or something like that) Just touch his arm, and smile next time. Link to post Share on other sites
PRW Posted April 7, 2020 Share Posted April 7, 2020 On 3/26/2020 at 5:42 AM, ShyGal78 said: Just wondering if I screwed up? (78 isn't my birth year, I'm younger). What do guys think of gals that meet their eye contact like that? How can I 'clarify' things with him? There is nothing here in this. If you want to get together with him again then just do it. Link to post Share on other sites
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