Arnold Posted June 12, 2001 Share Posted June 12, 2001 What if I fell in love with a girl who i really don't like? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted June 12, 2001 Share Posted June 12, 2001 Happens all the time...but it's not love. It's a chemical attraction, mostly sexual. So in that case you just let the lady know it's just a sexual thing. This happens to a lot of people, although your post is the first I've ever see with the regards to the phenomena. We can often become smitten or have a crush on someone we wish were different in some ways. We can be extremely attracted to someone and actually go after them fully knowing that it would never work. Some people who do this are actually afraid of intimacy so they repeatedly "fall" in love with bixtches and others they don't really like because they are assured it will never go anywhere. At least you admit you don't like this person. Many people delude themselves and pretend to like the person despite rejection, abuse, etc. Since like comes BEFORE love, you are not in love if you don't like this person. You can be infatuated with someone for any one of dozens of psychological reasons. But in healthy situations, we get to know someone for a period of time and then we fall in love with them because we admire their behavior. Love is like X 1,000,000. Since you pose your question hypothetically, I am hoping that this has not happened to you...because the problems it poses can be hell if you aren't smart enough to get away quickly. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts