amaysngrace Posted June 20, 2020 Share Posted June 20, 2020 Yea I told him tonight when he stopped by after he got done work. He said he needed closure and ended by saying F U to me. Isn't that special? lol 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted June 20, 2020 Share Posted June 20, 2020 10 hours ago, amaysngrace said: He said he needed closure and ended by saying F U to me. Some people just don't know how to handle break ups... As a general rule, I've never needed "closure". I never really cared why a woman was dumping me or found the need to see/talk to her after her decision was made. I don't get it... usually when a woman breaks up with a guy, she doesn't like something about him. What's the point in hearing something negative about me? I'm not likely going to change who I am, so the best course of action is to shower up and head out to look for the next woman. Best of luck with the new guy!! 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted June 20, 2020 Share Posted June 20, 2020 @amaysngrace, that's awful! I'm sorry it didn't work out. When I read about some people's breakups I feel like mine was so civil in comparison. Of course it's never easy. I'm being quite lazy this week and definitely today. My excuse is breakup blahs. I'm planning to let that ride through the weekend and then try to get back to a more fun, active routine starting on Monday. All I've done today is watch a bunch of YouTube videos in my pajamas, clean the kitchen, and drink coffee. I am slowly making a grocery list, trying to motivate myself to go to the store. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ellener Posted June 20, 2020 Share Posted June 20, 2020 6 hours ago, Happy Lemming said: the best course of action is to shower up and head out to look for the next woman. Love it! Link to post Share on other sites
Ellener Posted June 20, 2020 Share Posted June 20, 2020 1 hour ago, Ruby Slippers said: I'm planning to let that ride through the weekend and then try to get back to a more fun, active routine starting on Monday. I'm in pandemic blues mode right now, which really is because I'm doing all the things which make me miserable like no walking, too much solitary, alcohol ( I cracked and drank the Crown Royal! ) too much online, watching news etc. I need to get a grip on myself too! @Ruby Slippers Always feel a bit sad on Father's Day, and I'm really missing my seniors and the feeling of raison d'être. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 I talked to my father on Friday, just to "check in" and see how things are. He was bored and I understand that. He asked for some snapshots/pictures of me, girlfriend, cacti and basically anything I found interesting. I have quite a few digital pictures on my hard drive. It was just a matter of scrolling through them all and finding items of interest. There was a great picture of my girlfriend and I, so I ordered some extra copies of that one (so she & I could have one, each). I put in a HUGE shutterfly order (yesterday afternoon), when it comes in I'll label each picture with a little story on the back, then mail it off to him. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
The Outlaw Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 On 6/19/2020 at 9:55 PM, amaysngrace said: He said he needed closure and ended by saying F U to me. I'm sorry, amays. That's just terrible. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 I was looking forward to lockdowns easing tomorrow but the number of cases in my state are the worst in the country. I also live in a suburb that's a COVID hotspot. So they decided to go back few steps and we are on a strict lockdown again I am just sick of this already. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Realitysux Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 On 6/19/2020 at 10:55 PM, amaysngrace said: Yea I told him tonight when he stopped by after he got done work. He said he needed closure and ended by saying F U to me. Isn't that special? lol You were just talking about this man like he was the best thing that happened to you and now you are bothered by his reaction to your closure rather then accept as an adult you hurt him. This is why I am in the position that I am in right now. You guys need to get off your high horse 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Realitysux Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 2 hours ago, The Outlaw said: I'm sorry, amays. That's just terrible. Is it now.. cause she liked a man a lot a few months ago and now she's talking about dating like it's high school. I'm single until further notice and when I give you notice this guy was worth it Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 12 minutes ago, Realitysux said: ...now you are bothered by his reaction to your closure rather then accept as an adult you hurt him. . He is also an adult. As an adult, he should know that not all relationships work out. It was very childish of him to say F U to @amaysngrace If he wants to participate in the dating world, he should know how to act like an adult, not like a child where someone took away his toy truck. Have some dignity and grace. He should of said "I'm sorry you feel that way, but I understand... I wish you all the luck in the world finding what you are looking for", then go away. 2 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Realitysux Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 (edited) 24 minutes ago, Happy Lemming said: He is also an adult. As an adult, he should know that not all relationships work out. It was very childish of him to say F U to @amaysngrace If he wants to participate in the dating world, he should know how to act like an adult, not like a child where someone took away his toy truck. Have some dignity and grace. He should of said "I'm sorry you feel that way, but I understand... I wish you all the luck in the world finding what you are looking for", then go away. She shouldn't have been bragging about him if she didn't know him Edited June 21, 2020 by Realitysux 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 7 minutes ago, Realitysux said: She shouldn't have been bragging about him if she didn't know him Everyone gets excited about a new relationship, she expressed her happiness. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Realitysux Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 27 minutes ago, Happy Lemming said: Everyone gets excited about a new relationship, she expressed her happiness. The switch was definitely odd to me and my gut is usually right. I've survived off my gut for a long time. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 Well we had sex last night for the first time and hopefully the last time That’s my closure. What if he was the lay of my lifetime and I missed out? Turns out, he wasn’t. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 (edited) On 6/20/2020 at 1:18 PM, Ruby Slippers said: @amaysngrace, that's awful! I'm sorry it didn't work out. When I read about some people's breakups I feel like mine was so civil in comparison. Of course it's never easy. I'm being quite lazy this week and definitely today. My excuse is breakup blahs. I'm planning to let that ride through the weekend and then try to get back to a more fun, active routine starting on Monday. All I've done today is watch a bunch of YouTube videos in my pajamas, clean the kitchen, and drink coffee. I am slowly making a grocery list, trying to motivate myself to go to the store. Ruby, did you just break up with that guy you were seeing? What happened? Pamper yourself. You tried so hard to make that work, so I'm sorry. AmaysnGrace, sorry he didn't work out. I guess he's mystified....not a good sign. Edited June 21, 2020 by preraph 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
eleanorrigby Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 We dined inside for the second time since March and it's just not fun anymore. They give one menu to share, so you have to take turns choosing your meal. If you order coffee, each refill is a fresh cup, but they don't remove the empty cups, or anything really until you leave the table. You have to ask for everything you might need, nothing is on the table anymore. Worst of all the servers were wearing cloth masks over their mouths and plastic face shields. It's difficult to hear the server and not being greeted with a visible smile is the last nail in the coffin for an inviting ambiance. The entire experience sucked, it feels like a waste of money and a downer overall. We entered hungry but ended up just sharing a short stack and a hash brown and hustled out of there with a vow to not bother again until social distancing is over. This is going to kill the restaurant industry if things don't get back to normal soon. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
schlumpy Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 That sounds horrible Eleanor. I haven't been out to eat yet. That doesn't make me look forward to it. My cooking skills are improving. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Ellener Posted June 21, 2020 Share Posted June 21, 2020 1 hour ago, eleanorrigby said: We entered hungry but ended up just sharing a short stack and a hash brown and hustled out of there with a vow to not bother again until social distancing is over. we're all doing pick up here, some of the restaurants are open but from tomorrow all businesses who don't refuse service to people without masks can receive a $1000 fine; as you say not really the ambience we're going for. Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted June 22, 2020 Share Posted June 22, 2020 not sure to paint my toes white or red, I think I’ll go for red cause it’s hot 🔥 Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted June 22, 2020 Share Posted June 22, 2020 5 hours ago, preraph said: Ruby, did you just break up with that guy you were seeing? What happened? Pamper yourself. You tried so hard to make that work, so I'm sorry. Yes, I did. I'm sure being together practically 24/7 in lockdown didn't help. We kept having disagreements and I kept feeling like he's just too selfish and inconsiderate for me to live with long term. Thanks, I've definitely been taking it easy. It's been so quiet with the house back to myself, but I'm gradually adjusting. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted June 22, 2020 Share Posted June 22, 2020 1 minute ago, amaysngrace said: not sure to paint my toes white or red, I think I’ll go for red cause it’s hot 🔥 I did mine yesterday, a shimmery pink called "Let It Glow" 1 Link to post Share on other sites
amaysngrace Posted June 22, 2020 Share Posted June 22, 2020 I think I have that same polish ruby, I got a damn basket full and use like three 🤣 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted June 22, 2020 Share Posted June 22, 2020 Today I visited my parents. We were going to go to my sister's house for hamburgers, but another sister dropped off a bunch of food and my dad wasn't feeling great, so we just hung out there. Since I thought I'd be seeing more people, I wore a kinda cute outfit, blow-dried my hair, and put on earrings, a bracelet, and lipstick for the first time in months. It was nice to be around someone other than myself and my cat for a change! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
eleanorrigby Posted June 22, 2020 Share Posted June 22, 2020 51 minutes ago, schlumpy said: That sounds horrible Eleanor. I haven't been out to eat yet. That doesn't make me look forward to it. My cooking skills are improving. Save your money, it's a total drag. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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