When he is gone quiet: do you think I should completely ignore him and move on or wait to see what he texts me?

[Tatiana7]

I will try to keep this short as much as I can. I am 33 I was seeing a guy who was 35 we are with each other for one year and a half and he cheated on me.

I reached out to another guy that I knew of as I knew he was quite the opposite. I suppose I was just looking for some reassurance or some comfort as I used to talk to this guy on Facebook a lot and he is a nice guy. I eventually hooked up with this guy after flirty messages, etc. I really don't feel like it was a rebound as a genuinly I did find this guy attractive and I thought about him in certain ways before.

We met up a couple of times watch movies, had sex, etc. I told him are for a couple of weeks that I was started to develop feelings for him. The thing is he did plan to move to Sweden last year only for he put it on hold because he was chasing this girl for 6 months to only find out that the girl didn't really know what she wanted. He told me from the very beginning and he doesn't know whether Sweden is going ahead or not he's not too sure as people in his house need him his mother his father is not too well, etc. But I still think he's still planning on going to Sweden but with the Corona virus is not too sure.

He would say certain things to me me like you go to concert with me if the other person wasn't going me and it was really nice of me make me feel good. After I told him I had feelings for him he basically brought up the thing about Sweden and said it goes without saying that he does like me on into the same things that him but when I said to him that let's just a friend he told me not jump the gun on anything and God knows what will happen. But when I actually went out to see him after that we got into his bed and I was trying not to have sex with him I was probably being a little bit silly and childish by saying I wonder what it's like to live here, not have sex, etc. I think he felt he had to say these things but he did turn around and say look Tanya I do have feelings for you too but I just not too sure where my head is at the Sweden. And sometimes I felt like he's just saying that because he he knew I was reluctant to have sex I'm not too sure.

He knows the guy that cheated on me and he knows that guy was coming up to my house and try and bring down my door. He got voice messages from this guy because he has a special square with each other. I asked him that this turn him off me and he told me outside that it doesn't but then I have a girl that I work with the fancy him too but he wasn't really into her and he said he didn't want to hurt either.

This guy is naturally a hermit. He lives in a cabin across his mum and dad's house so he does work a lot inside it he's an artist and likes to keep himself to himself. But recently he is gone very quiet with me for days.

I feel like I'm the first person he messaged us as he talks to me through text message as he talks to the other people only through Facebook that he has to go it was house for for Wi-Fi where his normal text messages work from his cabin. He was being ok I suppose but now with the lockdown I feel like he's using this as an excuse. I really don't know what to think. I really don't know what I'm saying.

I think I might have fallen for this guy and I don't know what to do. It so hard sitting at home when you could go with a few days without talking to him at a time. I know when he's coming back on this phone due today after not talking to me all weekend. He had a few messages for me but now he's quiet again for 2 days and it did not send him one message.

I did get with this guy pretty quick after the other guy cheated on me but it's not as if he was just a randomer. I really did like him that way. Anyway I'm sorry I don't know where I'm going with this. I just feel so confused.

He did text me to say sorry that he's been quiet that he felt like a sledgehammer has came down on top of them over the weekend and needed to give his brain a break and a lot of stuff happened at home that he'll tell me when he sees me, but then he's gone quiet again for 2 days and it has not been on Facebook. I am hoping that he would send me a message saying he wants to meet up on the weekend. I know the lockdown is on but we don't live too far away from each other. I could easily go to his and watch movies but I don't know. What I did put it out there and ask him when he does eventually text me just saying hey you will we have a movie night.

I'm not too sure all I wait until you said that to me. I just feel like a weekend that I'll have a home without the children. I hate the weekend being wasted by sitting in on my own. I really love to see him. I know I could have friends over but I really do miss him so much. I know I'm probably sounded desperate here but it's so hard when you really have to follow for someone and just stuff gets in the way.

It's really hard feeling like this I know I sound pretty desperate I'm just not used to being the one that's waiting around. I have sent a message as a while ago and updates or when my ex has been trying to call me all the time and maybe that got to him a little bit. But he was the one that said to me if he comes up to the house let me know. But I think maybe at all got a bit much from and he has other stuff going at home.

Do you think I should completely ignore him and move on or wait to see what he text me?