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Corona Lockdown Affecting My Dating Mental Health Part 2: New Date


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2. I met someone online a few weeks ago but we've not met yet. TBH its unlikely to be serious thing as she is way younger than me, and we're both into this being just for fun. We've sent texts sparsely, every few days. Today, she texted me to invite me on a date! She says "Do you fancy meeting today to have a date in your car and a nice walk. You can bring champagne to drink before our walk."

Although, she is hot, and I have been strictly observing the isolation rules for 11 days now (and she says so has she) I feel uncomfortable about it. Is this normal?

If I'm honest, I've resigned myself and conditioned my mind to further isolation until the government relaxes the guidelines. I'm off work and isolated. I'm not sure if I'm depressed but I'm certainly more introverted than before. I'm reasonably content in staying in and relaxing alone.

The idea of this date doesn't appeal on several levels: the Corona situation, I'd have to drive around an hour to meet her. I don't drink champagne and don't want to buy a bottle, and if I went on a date with this girl it would be somewhere entertaining like a music venue night out and not an intimate car meet and walk, especially since we've not met before.

Yeh sure this could have been a quickie in the carpark, but it just doesn't appeal at the current time.

What do you think?

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Sounds to me she's a hooker which wouldn't surprise me, or she's setting you up to get robbed. If it seems to good  to be true then it is. People take advantage of others during a crisis such as this. Don't go there.

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14 minutes ago, smackie9 said:

Sounds to me she's a hooker which wouldn't surprise me, or she's setting you up to get robbed. If it seems to good  to be true then it is. People take advantage of others during a crisis such as this. Don't go there.

That's my point, It doesn't even sound good to me! 

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Gr8fuln2020
On 4/4/2020 at 5:26 PM, dangerous said:

Today, she texted me to invite me on a date! She says "Do you fancy meeting today to have a date in your car and a nice walk. You can bring champagne to drink before our walk."

What do you think?

What an odd way to set up a date and with COVID-19?!?!?!

Yeah. This is a no go! A lot younger than you and THIS...I agree, someone definitely with an unkind agenda planned.

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OnlyHonesty

There is a lockdown, and a virus around. Why would you go meet a stranger in your car? You don't know anything about her, and you'd be risking potential infection for what exactly? Use your head...

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