andytuotuo Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 So I have posted my story here a few months back. Back in January, she told me she felt stressed talking to me and we couldn't remain friends. I was hurt but I told her I would respect her decision. Two months goes back, I did not try to reach out or talk to her at all. Mid March, I messaged her asking about her brothers and family with what's happening around Coronavirus. She replied saying thank you everyone is fine hope you are well. I did not follow up with the message as I know she wanted to be left alone. So that was that. 2 weeks later, I just found out that she randomly deleted me on Message App and even on LinkedIn. Really out of nowhere. I really don't understand why. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 She already told you why. It makes her stressed to talk to you. She doesn't want to have to keep thinking about you or whatever went on. she might even have someone who's paying attention to who she's talking to and wouldn't approve. She did let you know. In life you just have to leave her alone now. I'm sorry. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
assertives Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 1 hour ago, andytuotuo said: she told me she felt stressed talking to me and we couldn't remain friends. Except, it wasn't out of nowhere though. She just happened to really meant what she said when she said you guys cannot remain friends. You weren't listening to her properly or at all hence why you felt blindsided. Her responding to your message checking in with her wrt pandemic was just her being nice and polite. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 When she told you what you need to know why didn’t you believe her? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 She was serious when she told you she couldn't stay friends, OP. I can understand why she responded under the circumstances of the pandemic but likely worried it meant you would be continue to try to reach out. She doesn't want contact with you, so she's cut it off at the source now. It stings, but you need to really understand now that it's over. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ElaineGracex Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 13 hours ago, andytuotuo said: So I have posted my story here a few months back. Back in January, she told me she felt stressed talking to me and we couldn't remain friends. I was hurt but I told her I would respect her decision. Two months goes back, I did not try to reach out or talk to her at all. Mid March, I messaged her asking about her brothers and family with what's happening around Coronavirus. She replied saying thank you everyone is fine hope you are well. I did not follow up with the message as I know she wanted to be left alone. So that was that. 2 weeks later, I just found out that she randomly deleted me on Message App and even on LinkedIn. Really out of nowhere. I really don't understand why. I am actually guilty of doing this. She has stated that talking to you stressed her out, so when you reached out to her it might be reopening her wounds. She replied to be polite, but she's afraid that you might contact her in the future. Also the old wound started to sting again now, and seeing your contact reminds her of the hurt. I deleted my ex off everything even though he stopped reaching out to me because seeing his contacts reminds me of him and it hurts. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 Obviously you either hurt her or made her really mad, or both, so leave her the F alone. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LunadelToro Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 I think it's best to leave her alone for now, it seems like she's trying to heal from the breakup.. Link to post Share on other sites
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