do women want drama?

[Woggle]

People who need drama to feel excitement live boring lives.

[skywriter]

Yes theatrics exactly. My daughter gets so tickled at my boyfriend and I. Our not so friendly banter back and forth 

with one another. It's all in good fun though, if you didn't know us, you might think there was, trouble in paradise.

[poppyfields]

1 hour ago, alphamale said:

women love drama, the more intense a relationship is the more valuable it is to her

True imo.  Women (many, not all of course) are driven by their emotions. 

If a man is able to successfully tap into a woman emotions, he's halfway there. 

Does not mean fighting, or arguments.  I don't like fighting or arguments either! 

Edited April 7, 2020 by poppyfields

[Woggle]

Playing these games might get you emotionally immature women who wouldn't know a healthy relationship if it was right in front of them but it will repel healthy women who want a healthy relationship and despite what many men say they do exist.

[simpycurious]

4 minutes ago, poppyfields said:

True imo.  Women (many, not all of course) are driven by their emotions. 

If a man is able to successfully tap into a woman emotions, he's halfway there. 

Does not mean fighting, or arguments.  I don't like fighting or arguments either! 

There is so much I could expand on with this but it might simply be TOO MUCH. Poppy, I am at a loss for words which NEVER HAPPENS

[poppyfields]

7 minutes ago, simpycurious said:

There is so much I could expand on with this but it might simply be TOO MUCH. Poppy, I am at a loss for words which NEVER HAPPENS

Please expound simply, I'm interested in hearing your thoughts about it.

From what I gather so far, nothing is "too much" around here!  

[Azincourt]

19 hours ago, Letschill said:

I see women complain all the time about why they are tired of their men they date being jerks. But they keep dating them. Is there something to this? Do women just like to argue with jerks and everything?

Depends on the woman.

Some women like drama, conflict, emotional instability, unreliable partners, and men who don't care much about them. 

Many women want a guy who treats them proper.

It also depends on the life stage she's going through when you meet her.

 Many women aged 18-22 are more likely to like ''jerks'' and ''douchebags'' because the guy takes care of himself(hits the gym hard, knows how to dress, has high levels of confidence and approaches women) but that's because they're not looking for anything serious with a man this early in their lives.

If you want those hot 18-22 year old women, consider hiring a personal trainer at the gym.

Tell him you want a body like Christian Bale in American Psycho.  But first head out to your family doctor, have him do every extensive medical examination on yourself to see if you are healthy enough to lift hard, and only then do you hire a personal trainer and work hard to get a beautiful body.

Many women who like ''douchebags'' also love tattoos. Tribal tattoos are as popular with women in 2020 as they were in 2000.

Also, if you have a weak chin/jawline, you can save up for plastic surgery that will give you a decent chin, and a square jawline if you're lacking that, and if you're suffering from hair loss,  thinning hair, bald spots, a receding hairline etc, you can always save up money and undergo a hair transplant operation.

Edited April 7, 2020 by Azincourt

[simpycurious]

8 minutes ago, poppyfields said:

Please expound simply, I'm interested in hearing your thoughts about it.

From what I gather so far, nothing is "too much" around here!  

I am still baffled by one of your earlier comments. I think there was a "jab" of sorts buried in there no quite sure.  Maybe, it goes back to your earlier TERMS of NON endearment. 

[poppyfields]

9 minutes ago, simpycurious said:

I am still baffled by one of your earlier comments. I think there was a "jab" of sorts buried in there no quite sure.  Maybe, it goes back to your earlier TERMS of NON endearment. 

Oh just ignore that, sorry.  It was just me being a bit of a snark, all in good fun, apologies if I offended. 

Edited April 7, 2020 by poppyfields

[Azincourt]

5 minutes ago, simpycurious said:

I am still baffled by one of your earlier comments. I think there was a "jab" of sorts buried in there no quite sure.  Maybe, it goes back to your earlier TERMS of NON endearment. 

IWhat was it about that person's earlier comments that made you feel there was a jab of sorts buried in them?

[simpycurious]

I think you misjudged what I was referring to in reference to GAME, PLAYER, etc.  I assure you it HAS NOTHING to do with anything degrading or demeaning

towards women.  I would NEVER do or say anything of the sort.  It is very low class and undignified to be crass towards ANY WOMAN.

[Azincourt]

Just now, simpycurious said:

I think you misjudged what I was referring to in reference to GAME, PLAYER, etc.  I assure you it HAS NOTHING to do with anything degrading or demeaning

towards women.  I would NEVER do or say anything of the sort.  It is very low class and undignified to be crass towards ANY WOMAN.

What's wrong with Pick-up Artists? There's nothing degrading about a man taking a woman home, or trying to take her home.

[skywriter]

^^^ Yes, simpy! You gotta have a sense of humour in life some times. I think you are saying that, maybe? Not game playing like with someones emotions. No...

I don't mean drama in that sense and I'm pretty sure preraph wasn't implying that type drama either.

Just being lighthearted. 

 

[simpycurious]

Just now, skywriter said:

^^^ Yes, simpy! You gotta have a sense of humour in life some times. I think you are saying that, maybe? Not game playing like with someones emotions. No...

I don't mean drama in that sense and I'm pretty sure preraph wasn't implying that type drama either.

Just being lighthearted. 

 

I agree Sky. I am indeed lighthearted.  Azin, keep up the good work.  Please take over this thread. I think that I have posted enough

[Azincourt]

2 minutes ago, simpycurious said:

I agree Sky. I am indeed lighthearted.  Azin, keep up the good work.  Please take over this thread. I think that I have posted enough

I would bro, but these days I can't post much without getting reported to the mods, apparently I already have my very own fan-club 💪🤣

[RecentChange]

32 minutes ago, Azincourt said:

What's wrong with Pick-up Artists? There's nothing degrading about a man taking a woman home, or trying to take her home.

There is nothing degrading about using tactics that a con man would favor to try to convince a girl to have sex with you?

Most pick up artist techniques are about how to con and tear down women to get sex from them.

It's not exactly about respect and building a meaningful connection with women.

[Azincourt]

11 minutes ago, RecentChange said:

There is nothing degrading about using tactics that a con man would favor to try to convince a girl to have sex with you?

Most pick up artist techniques are about how to con and tear down women to get sex from them.

It's not exactly about respect and building a meaningful connection with women.

Degrading?

Degrading in what sense?

to whom?

Men? women?

Men have always used tactics to get women to sleep with them, since the first modern man was born 300.000 years ago in Africa.

Some men use money(escorts, strippers, camgirls, trophy wives, sugar babies) and others hustle at the gym hard to get that gorgeous Brad Pitt body to get attention from women. Others use a lot of charm, ''game'', to stand amongst so many other dudes who are hot, handsome, tall and muscular, to be noticed by the women they want to be noticed by.

Yeah, but we're not talking about building a meaningful connection with women.

We're talking about casual sex. One-night stands. For that you don't need to build anything meaningful with the woman. What you need is for her to become sexually aroused when she looks at you, and there's women who like a bold, charming man, who tells a lot of ''lies'' that make her feel good.

Of course a guy gotta be respectful.

Don't hit on drunk women/women on drugs, if she rejects you just shrug it off and hit on someone else, and accept that if you want to take a woman home for the night, you might have to lower your standards in a woman's physical attractiveness.

I'd say that wanting to take women home to have no-strings-attached sex with them is not degrading.

Using lame methods like the ones being taught by those Early 2000's PUA's ''gurus'' is degrading, but the spirit of PUA in itself ain't evil.

Edited April 7, 2020 by Azincourt

[simpycurious]

32 minutes ago, RecentChange said:

There is nothing degrading about using tactics that a con man would favor to try to convince a girl to have sex with you?

Most pick up artist techniques are about how to con and tear down women to get sex from them.

It's not exactly about respect and building a meaningful connection with women.

I didn't mean anything toward Pick Up Artist's in terms of the degrading comment.  Not sure where that came from.  I think this thread is officially off topic.

I think that I need a long vacation 

Edited April 7, 2020 by simpycurious

[preraph]

I don't particularly enjoy bickering either but one of my boyfriends talked a lot. what I mean by drama was what I described earlier. Good drama.

[poppyfields]

34 minutes ago, Azincourt said:

Using lame methods like the ones being taught by those Early 2000's PUA's ''gurus'' is degrading, but the spirit of PUA in itself ain't evil.

You mean like Erik von Markovik ("Mystery") and David DeAngelo? Lol

Who do you like,  Rollo Tomassi, Artison, Ross Jeffries or Roosh V?

Not judging, just asking.  

Edited April 7, 2020 by poppyfields

[preraph]

2 hours ago, Woggle said:

People who need drama to feel excitement live boring lives.

Hate to contradict you Woggle, but my life was anything but boring. It was filled with some pretty dramatic people. 

[poppyfields]

1 minute ago, preraph said:

Hate to contradict you Woggle, but my life was anything but boring. It was filled with some pretty dramatic people. 

I agree, some people simply need more mental stimulation than others and enjoy being challenged. 

No wrong or right, to each his/her own as they say.  

[simpycurious]

1 hour ago, poppyfields said:

Oh just ignore that, sorry.  It was just me being a bit of a snark, all in good fun, apologies if I offended. 

No offense taken. I even left you something in the Song Thread. Carry On. 

[RecentChange]

10 minutes ago, preraph said:

Hate to contradict you Woggle, but my life was anything but boring. It was filled with some pretty dramatic people. 

For me - when I think "excitement" being around dramatic people ain't it (I am an introvert at heart, I got no time for emotionally dramatic people). I find myself telling my husband to take it down a good 10 notches when he gets worked up. I don't enjoy drama and the emotional highs and lows. 

For me excitment is galloping my horse so fast that my eyes water, and perhaps an extra jolt of having a deer jump out in front of us.

Or perhaps even a challenging closing at work, and the "high" I get after a long fast paced day in the city.

But when I come home, I don't need "excitement" from my spouse. 

Again it's a different strokes for different folks kind of thing. People have commented on my "calm" energy. That's why I get along with horses so well, and why all our pets cling to me when they get nervous. Dramatic I am not, I tend to be a soothing presence. 

Hahahah I find myself telling people to BREATHE.

[preraph]

Animals are just so flexible. I never had much of a calm energy unless I'm really like out in nature, but animals love me. I've probably annoyed a horse or two in my time though.