do women want drama?

[basil67]

Though the question remains why other women should want to be like someone else...

[simpycurious]

1 minute ago, Cookiesandough said:

Lol

Nope, it didn’t.  I understood. 😊 Thank you, simpy!  

I figured you would be able too........hope you are well

[basil67]

@Letschill care to respond to the topic?   Wondering how you define "drama"?

[Woggle]

Why would any man want the kind of woman that wants drama anyway. Those types are insufferable. They twist themselves into knots over toxic men and then when they have had enough they now hate men and men are trash. I don't care good a woman like that looks if all does is bring that into my life.

[Foxhall]

22 hours ago, simpycurious said:

the reality is that women want to be like Cookie...if not maybe they should 

 

is romance brewing on the forum😊

[alphamale]

21 hours ago, Woggle said:

Why would any man want the kind of woman that wants drama anyway. 

the drama comes with the package.  women are into relationships and relationships involve drama sometimes

[Content]

Any women who likes drama is somebody I’d stay far away from.

its one thing to never have an opinion or disagreement that’s another  extreme but men or women who like drama or arguments I don’t get it. Let them have each other and argue amongst themselves if it turns you on so much.. I’ll be with someone who values peace.

Edited April 9, 2020 by Content

[alphamale]

9 minutes ago, Content said:

Any women who likes drama is somebody I’d stay far away from.

 

good luck gettin' laid then

[Content]

19 minutes ago, alphamale said:

good luck gettin' laid then

I do fine. Me and my girl have a great relationship. She never asks me to keep her in line nor does she want arguments because she  mistakes it for passion 

Edited April 9, 2020 by Content

[simpycurious]

I think drama often comes from this:   trying to make someone what you want them to be instead of letting them be the someone they are 

if that makes any sense

[K.K.]

1 hour ago, Content said:

I do fine. Me and my girl have a great relationship. She never asks me to keep her in line nor does she want arguments because she  mistakes it for passion

Whaaaat?! Heaven forbid there’s any passion!! 😁 ( I must’ve misunderstood this?) 

For real though, drama at the beginning of a relationship seems the norm to me. It’s when you’re trying to gauge how much you like each other. How fiery and passionate their personality. All the things that go along with becoming a couple. Staking your claim to each other can come with a little drama.  

The old “broken in like a good shoe” stuff usually comes well after you’ve sealed the deal with some drama and even arguing as you’re trying to find your place in their life. Only then does contentment follow. Basically, a more profound sense of love instead of infatuation and too much drama which can be overwhelming and make you crazy. 

Contentment can be a wonderful thing. It can also be boring as hell if it turns just plain ‘dull.’ I mean, nobody wants a fist throwing, knock down drag out involving cops and large amounts of alcohol, or some person you can’t trust not to steal your money and blow it on cocaine and hookers, but I think a little sprinkle of drama every now and again is like the salt on a tray of baked chicken thighs. Leaving it out would make the dish rather bland. Edible, but bland. And let’s face it, there’s nothing like a good argument or a little sprinkling of salt to get that blood pumping again. And don’t forget, the make sex is 🔥! ! 

Drama - yes please. 🙂 I don’t really like jerks though. A little bit of bad boy maybe but not a jerk. 

[basil67]

I really must not be understanding the use of the word Drama.   I always associate it with Bridezillas.   Or the meme with the lady yelling and the cat who no like vegetels 

Edited April 9, 2020 by basil67

[K.K.]

9 minutes ago, basil67 said:

I really must not be understanding the use of the word Drama.   I always associate it with Bridezillas.   Or the meme with the lady yelling and the cat who no like vegetels 

No, no I don’t mean it like that at all. I mean just a little passion more than anything. I can’t stand a drama queen bridezilla or anything like that. I’m with you on that. 

[chillii]

l had to chuckle , my woman says to me yesterday , sorry l was such a crazy b2tch drama queen  the other day, haaaa , no worries baby , l'm use to it, grain of salt . 

Edited April 11, 2020 by chillii

[chillii]

ps , she wouldn't be the who that she is without her mind working in the way that is does haha. Wouldn't change a thing.

[simpycurious]

On 4/8/2020 at 10:33 PM, basil67 said:

I really must not be understanding the use of the word Drama.   I always associate it with Bridezillas.   Or the meme with the lady yelling and the cat who no like vegetels 

Me too, Basil.  I will say that women that are intriguing, not push overs, spunky, feisty and determined  are A LOT OF FUN.  I think they can be all those things without being DRAMA filled.  At least, I hope so. 

Edited April 11, 2020 by simpycurious

[poppyfields]

14 hours ago, chillii said:

l had to chuckle , my woman says to me yesterday , sorry l was such a crazy b2tch drama queen  the other day, haaaa , no worries baby , l'm use to it, grain of salt . 

You're a gem chilli. Lucky girl. 

[simpycurious]

11 minutes ago, poppyfields said:

You're a gem chilli. Lucky girl. 

I agree Chilli...you rock.  Good Lesson.  Love someone for who they are not who you want them to be.  

[preraph]

We don't call bridezillas "drama" around here.  We call them "bats**t crazy raving harrions."

[SumGuy]

On 4/8/2020 at 9:44 PM, Content said:

I do fine. Me and my girl have a great relationship. She never asks me to keep her in line nor does she want arguments because she  mistakes it for passion 

Same.  Has been that way my entire life.  Plenty of passionate drama free women out there.

[SumGuy]

On 4/8/2020 at 10:51 PM, simpycurious said:

I think drama often comes from this:   trying to make someone what you want them to be instead of letting them be the someone they are 

if that makes any sense

Exactly...in most cases.   Then there are just those who are disordered, men and women.   

[Ellener]

On 4/8/2020 at 9:51 PM, simpycurious said:

I think drama often comes from this:   trying to make someone what you want them to be instead of letting them be the someone they are 

if that makes any sense

It does.

And from trying to make a relationship work when it doesn't.

[Ellener]

On 4/8/2020 at 10:28 PM, K.K. said:

nobody wants a fist throwing, knock down drag out involving cops and large amounts of alcohol, or some person you can’t trust not to steal your money and blow it on cocaine and hookers,

you'd think...😁

[basil67]

4 hours ago, preraph said:

We don't call bridezillas "drama" around here.  We call them "bats**t crazy raving harrions."

We Aussies are kings of the understatement.   Hmm...this could be why I interpret the word 'drama' differently to many others.

I don't think we have a word for what other posters on the thread seem to be describing.  Sure, there's 'fun' and 'interesting' and if that's what posters mean by women liking drama, then my mind is blown on the differences of language.

 

Edited April 11, 2020 by basil67

[preraph]

Oh, the meaning of the word has split off to many definitions just since I've been an adult.  What you think it is and what I think it is are just two different legit meanings.  I call someone who just stirs up trouble and stirs the pot the B word usually.  Have one at the office.  Upon getting some simple routine instruction/correction from the boss in the nicest way possible, she loudly told him how offensive it was that she saw him trimming his nails in his office one day and made a huge deal about it because she goes on the defensive like that about everything and also goes on the offensive without cause.  She had her little minions she works over snickering at him right there in front of him, FFS.  So disrespectful and embarrassing for him.   So yeah, she likes to stir up the drama.  But I just call her  The Big B because that's what she is.  I have a feeling she'd LIKE it if anyone called her a drama queen or diva.  It's too "fun" for what she is.  

 

I like fun theatrics, not negative theatrics.  I like entertaining creative people who aren't boring and will pull something kind of crazy out of their butt once in a awhile or do something unexpected.  I don't mind people whose reputations precede them as long as they're fun and memorable.  That's all.