Heartbroken12345 Posted April 8, 2020 Share Posted April 8, 2020 So me and my girl were together for 5 months but I knew who she was a year previous to that I use to mess around with her ex bestfriend. But from the first time I saw her and when we made eye contact it was just different. We literally lived together for all of those 5 months while we were going to school and we would do everything together but because of the virus she moved back home and I did as well. The relationship was okay I did get got three times texting other people but I wasn’t anything serious.and she was texting one of her exes which she said it was only because she had to give the girl her stuff back. So I didn’t care because she blocked her. Now there was this ex that would always message her throughout the entire relationship and she kept telling me that it it’s only because they were friends first and their relationship didn’t work so they remained friends. But that was always in the back of my mind because I didn’t feel comfortable with that so I kept asking her about it and she kept saying that me doing that constantly was pushing her away. Anyways we ended up breaking up because I just didn’t trust that relationship she had with her ex. And we talked about getting back together because one day she hit me up and said how she missed me , how I was worried too much about the other girl. But the other girl would constantly make tweets about the two of them and how they have such a good friendship. And then my ex said that shes torn right now and doesn’t know what to do. She’s says she loves tf out of me. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted April 9, 2020 Share Posted April 9, 2020 This relationship is too broken to mend. She loves TF out of you? She has a very immature idea of love, and if you were also inappropriately texting other people, then so do you. You two both need a lot of time to grow and mature before you'll be truly ready for something serious and long-term. Let her go. Link to post Share on other sites
jackzv121 Posted April 11, 2020 Share Posted April 11, 2020 How recent did she say she loves tf out of you and what was your reply? Most people on here will tell you to move on and let her go which is what you already know but they never address the issues. You need to be casual with her and not look like you want her straight back in your bed. Don't show her too much emotion at this stage, always make sure she texts you first and look like you have a life independant of her, I know that's hard during quarantine. But just look like the most appealing option to her out of you and her ex. This is all only if you want to save the relationship, you need to be strategic, just dont show too much emotion. Also mentally prepare yourself for moving on. Link to post Share on other sites
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