April1995 Posted April 12, 2020 Share Posted April 12, 2020 Hello guys, so this has taken me a while to do because I don’t have anyone I can confide too, due to judgment and embarrassment. I've been with my husband for 6 years and married 3, and even before we got married I was unhappy but still went along with it (more fool me) so here’s the situation, I’m trapped! It all began with how much he was drinking & gambling then excessively spending. Little did I know that he’s maxed out all my credit cards without me knowing & has set up 3 loans in my name making me 30 thousand pounds in debt. He constantly lies about everything, I’ve had to hide my credit cards and change my passwords to everything. we argue everyday more than once, And he doesn’t get how betrayed I feel & how I can’t move forward! I’m so utterly depressed and stuck. I have no one to speak to or tell about all of this- I just can’t see how I can get out of all this?? I need a plan.. why can’t I just walk away!? (finally feel relieved just for writing this all down, any advise would be great) Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
EmmaC Posted April 12, 2020 Share Posted April 12, 2020 Hi, where are your friends and parents? Maybe you should change your city. Now there are a lot of different services where you can ask for help. This attitude cannot be tolerated. I hope you've been talking and he's just not listening to you. Get away from it. Link to post Share on other sites
schlumpy Posted April 12, 2020 Share Posted April 12, 2020 I assume these were joint credit cards? If they were in your name only, then you may have a legal remedy depending on UK law. Link to post Share on other sites
notbroken Posted April 14, 2020 Share Posted April 14, 2020 I'm sorry, but you've got to get away from this guy. See a lawyer asap. He could get you even further in debt. Act quickly. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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