Springsummer Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 (edited) So, this person didn't response to my latest gif (as a response to his gif) for a week, so I ignored him for 3 weeks until he gif again. so we texting and gifing for a couple of weeks everyday. Then he does it again. It's been a week he went radio silence. why is that? why he does what he does? too bored? so I should just completely forget about this person, and ignore him even after he contacts me again, which I have a pretty guess that he will, judging from past experience. sigh, I know this sounds idiotic...but he looks cute and he checks off all my boxes, so far.. Edited April 18, 2020 by Springsummer Link to post Share on other sites
CaliforniaGirl Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 It's not idiotic, but if he were interested he'd be making darned sure to keep in contact with you. He'd be checking back in so you wouldn't forget about him and so some other guy wouldn't snap you up in the meantime. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Springsummer Posted April 18, 2020 Author Share Posted April 18, 2020 Yes, he makes sure to check back in...after 1 or 3 weeks... Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 This is who he is and you find him annoying and it just keeps you guessing, so I think you can just safely say it is what it is and it is not a match. Sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 Hs actions make it look like he sees you as a casual friend. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 (edited) l think you two need to stop this silly thing , what is it do you actually talk too or just send things , just meet or get off the pot. He's bored and lost interest but if you were to want to just actually meet finally , which l know right now is probably not doable anyway , but he did want to earlier didn't he ? , there's a slight maybe he fires up again. Edited April 18, 2020 by chillii Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 Can I backtrack a bit and ask what gives you the impression that he may be interested in dating? Link to post Share on other sites
peaceminusone Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 If its just gif and memes after a week, then he isn't interested in anything more than that. Ah, but if he fits your checklist, then go ahead and make conversation. though this doesn't seem like there's any connection. In-fact, you are putting him on hold for weeks, in response to his silence or ignore. Even if you two started talking, I doubt it would work. Connections that spark, don't die down for weeks. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Springsummer Posted April 19, 2020 Author Share Posted April 19, 2020 Next. Talking to someone else now....but but he is so much younger. no future. the guy is really an intellectual and accomplished though. so what to do? Link to post Share on other sites
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