lifeoflies Posted April 22, 2020 Share Posted April 22, 2020 (edited) 13 hours ago, Luna66star said: I was angry with my MM if he is a MM, then "my" doesn't apply. he is not yours, he "belongs" to another woman. "My MM" is an oxymoron, right. he is only your MM in your heart. Some women refer to him as "The MM", which is more accurate. Edited April 22, 2020 by lifeoflies Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lylalou Posted April 22, 2020 Author Share Posted April 22, 2020 @lifeoflies yes hanging onto the anger would be best, easier said than done but sadly our brains an made to forget pain and hurt. But time is a healer and I will get there. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Findingfreedom Posted April 24, 2020 Share Posted April 24, 2020 On 4/22/2020 at 12:44 AM, Luna66star said: It's very hard to cut off someone you have known for that long. I was angry with my MM many times for breadcrumbing me. After awhile the anger dissipated. He knew just how long to stay away and would pop back up knowing I had calmed down. At that point, nostalgia and good memories resurfaced. I started talking to him again. It seems as soon as he knew I didn't hate him anymore he got comfortable again and vanished to do who knows what with who. Likely other women as he has always been a notorious flirt. The only thing that worked for me was to wean off with a slow fade and start breadcrumbing him. I think it really pissed him off as I haven't heard from him in a month. Finally, I have peace. I wish this for you. How did you breadcrumb him? Link to post Share on other sites
lifeoflies Posted April 25, 2020 Share Posted April 25, 2020 (edited) Please think about this. this guy loves stringing you along. he feels powerful over you. likes confusing you and playing your emotions. What kind of guy does this to a woman? Edited April 25, 2020 by lifeoflies 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lylalou Posted April 25, 2020 Author Share Posted April 25, 2020 Wow @lifeoflies that is exactly what he does. Seeing it written down and by a man really helps. Thank you so much. Link to post Share on other sites
lifeoflies Posted April 25, 2020 Share Posted April 25, 2020 (edited) 5 hours ago, Lylalou said: Wow @lifeoflies that is exactly what he does. Seeing it written down and by a man really helps. Thank you so much. I am sorry you found yourself here. I dont know you personally but i think you deserve better. it's sad we treat people like that. Good luck breaking free. bear in mind, his pursuit will will continue as long as he perceives you as weak. You are not his toy. stand up for yourself. look in the mirror and flip him the bird. Most guys are not like him, despite what some may think Edited April 25, 2020 by lifeoflies Link to post Share on other sites
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