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Issues with the complicated relationship between boyfriend's ex and baby mama

CinderElla97

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I can tell you that that most definitely is not me. I do not wven need to read it as i know that i have not posted before. I may be slow but i am not crazy.

I do not need to see a therapist.

I have already said that i have not posted before and that i am starting to think she is not playing the games i originally thought.

If i was someone such as an ex of the guy in question seeking validation i would be revelling in the 100s of opinions saying he still loved me, not shooting them down and explaining why i do not think it is the case.

I also can't see that someone in that position would portray themselves as the villain, which you have all said i have made her out to be. Nor do i think they would be telling him to leave them alone and not contact them if they were indeed still in love with them.

That is one of the reasons i have come to think that perhaps she is being genuine. Because she has told him she is not interested in having any contact with him and other than to repeat that to him again tonight, she does not appear to be messaging him anymore. She used to text all throughout the day and now nothing. I don't think that she would say the things to him that she has said if she was still trying to win him back as the things she has said would only push him further away and make him hate her. 

You can take from that that i am being defensive if you so wish. But i know for a fact, that i have not posted before. Regardless of how much you think it sounds the same, it is not me!

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41 minutes ago, CinderElla97 said:

Because she has told him she is not interested in having any contact with him and other than to repeat that to him again tonight, she does not appear to be messaging him anymore. She used to text all throughout the day and now nothing. I don't think that she would say the things to him that she has said if she was still trying to win him back as the things she has said would only push him further away and make him hate her. 

Well then you have nothing to worry about do you as all seems well on your home front.

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17 hours ago, CinderElla97 said:

She has told him she knows how much he lies to me.

Alot of people can see this.

17 hours ago, CinderElla97 said:

And that all she wants is to help me as she knows the real him and she thinks that i dont.

She then said when i am ready to see him for what he is that she will help me.

She does know him better and if the father of my children treated me and them like that then i'd be pissed too.

17 hours ago, CinderElla97 said:

i still do not believe that it is not all an act from her just to try and come between us

YOU came between them, a family. 

He has shown the kind of man he is, you have seen the proof of his lies, lack of care and resposibilty to his children.

His parents love her so she is clearly trustworthy.

Time to listen to everyone cinder.

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