Best qualities you take to a new relationship?

[Ellener]

I've been thinking a lot about what I will do next when the lockdown ends, I kind-of enjoyed the dating but I'd be surprised if it leads to a permanent relationship, even meeting good people it's still hit-and-miss/random.

Anyway I'm looking at it from the opposite angle right now: what do I bring to the table?

My two best qualities are I'm fun to be with and 'interesting' apparently. That's the word people use 'interesting'! Hope that's a good thing 😆

What are your star relationship qualities?! 🤩

 

Edited April 26, 2020 by Ellener
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[Emilie Jolie]

Oh cool, a positive vibes thread. 

You bring your lovely self as a whole to the table, @Ellener - plenty enough! 

For me

Best quality 1: I make a mean Sunday breakfast, served in bed (as long as you don't mind waiting till 12). 

Best quality 2: I will try anything once.

 

 

[ZA Dater]

Well I don't know if people who haven't had a relationship ever can reply but anyway

My best qualities

1: Loyalty

2: Honesty

3: Kindness

4: I like to take an interest in people and things that matter to them.

[Ellener]

9 hours ago, Emilie Jolie said:

You bring your lovely self as a whole to the table, @Ellener - plenty enough! 

Thank you! Too kind.

9 hours ago, Emilie Jolie said:

I will try anything once.

Anything...? 😏

[Ellener]

9 hours ago, ZA Dater said:

Well I don't know if people who haven't had a relationship ever can reply but anyway

My best qualities

1: Loyalty

2: Honesty

3: Kindness

4: I like to take an interest in people and things that matter to them.

They are the best qualities to have!

[Blind-Sided]

I see this from two sides... what I think my good qualities are, and what other people say they are...

For me, I think...

1) I'm loyal.  I've NEVER cheated, or even thought of cheating on a SO.

2) I'm honest. Sometimes brutally honest.

3) I'm kind.  I'm honestly concerned with other people, and I help everyone in my neighborhood who needs it.  

What I've heard from others....

1) Kind heart

2) Handsome (But I really don't see it)

3) Extremely intelligent. (A few girls were intimidated by it)

3) Beautiful blue eyes. (that one I've heard so many times, it's almost funny. But it's something that gets a girl's attention)

I guess the main thing I'm going to take into my new relationship is to make sure communication stays open.  I know with my exW... she never talked to me, and she even said... "I've never felt I could talk to you."  This is why I was blindsided.  So, with the girl i'm seeing now... I've told her that I won't be upset if she tells me something that is bothering her, and I want to talk about the "Hard" subjects even if it's not fun.

 

[Emilie Jolie]

8 hours ago, Ellener said:

Anything...? 😏

Totally. Anything legal. And relatively safe. And I'm not eating raw animals. And...

Ok. not anything.

[K.K.]

20 hours ago, Ellener said:

My two best qualities are I'm fun to be with and 'interesting' apparently. That's the word people use 'interesting'! Hope that's a good thing 😆

 

 

I can see this. You do seem very fun and interesting. And nice! Also you’re a f***ing soldier with everything you’ve been through. And still you have a sense of humor and zest for life. I hope you find someone wonderful. Ima get off your dick now. 😁

[The Outlaw]

I’m a good listener. Loyal. Kind. Compassionate. Faithful. 

[Ellener]

4 hours ago, Blind-Sided said:

I want to talk about the "Hard" subjects even if it's not fun.

I think this is super important, there are always going to be challenges if two people make a life together. Good for you!

[chillii]

Ohhhhwwwww, how could l list them on this tiny little page , comon.  🤩🤩