Should I do anything?

[VaporWise]

My girlfriend came over today (Both 17). I thought she just wanted to hangout but it was pretty late (11:00). Her parents usually don't let her leave the house this late so this had me raise questions quickly. She arrived and I noticed she had tears in her eyes like she recently had been crying. I instantly took her to my room and we hung out like we normally do but after about 45 minutes she goes quiet and starts sobbing, obviously trying to hide it from me so I don't say anything. Later that night we eventually lead to sex (somehow???) after an awkward silence of about an hour and a half of her trying to hide her sobbing from me. After sex she complains about a headache, i asked her why and she said because shes been crying for 3+ hours, so I jumped on this and asked why. She started crying again, worse than before and wouldn't tell me why till I finally got it out of her. She wanted to breakup, but decided to change her mind when she got here. Her reasoning was she didn't want to be in a relationship for her senior year of high school, which she then proceeded to say that she couldn't see her self being with anybody else and that she wanted to stay with me. I talked to her about it for a while and were now on good terms. I do not want this relationship to end whatsoever but after tonight I just have a feeling that she might try to break up with me soon because of it. We have been dating for nearly a year now and that's the first time we got super close to breaking up.

But the thing im mad about, is two of my closest female friends who are both friends with my girlfriend told my girlfriend that it was a good idea to break up with me and to go for it. They didn't even really talk to her about it, pretty much just said "go for it", one of those friends are in an extremely toxic relationship for nearly 2 years, which have broken up around AT-LEAST 15 times, and the other one a girl who cant hold a relationship for over a month. My girlfriend reached out to them for advice on what she should do, (which was obviously s***ty advice because were still together lmao) and I feel betrayed by my friends more than anything about this. I know the girl in the toxic relationship is 100% jealous of our relationship because she told my girlfriend and others she wishes she could just have a relationship like mine and hers. And the other girl liked me (which I hard denied and stayed friends) so I believe she just wanted  to see my downfall because I got with a different girl. I was wondering what should I do about these two "friends"? I told an old buddy about my situation and he told me to drop my friends and focus on my male friends and girlfriend. I honestly believe this is the right path I should go but I wanted some advice from a forum before I did that. I am nothing but nice to them but I don't know if I can ever feel the same way about them again. 

Edited April 29, 2020 by VaporWise

[schlumpy]

It might work to put some distance between you and her friends but how do you put distance between her and her friends?

If she's that easily influenced by her friends then she has doubts about you and I would trust your gut feeling that this was her first attempt at breaking up. Who knows why she wants to do it. You are both young and there is the mythology of what you might be missing in your senior year. 

I think it's out of your control. Just prepare yourself for when it happens so you aren't blown out of the water. It's your senior year also and I wouldn't let her ruin it.