I don't want him at my place anymore

[Keeves1]

Hello.

My little brother came by yesterday because he had a job interview and he wanted to do it at my place because it’s quite. It’s also because he don’t want my parents to listen... it’s apparently making him act awkward.

He also got to know Maria much more and they were talking for hours! 

BUT he totally forgot the time and both me and Maria was hungry and sweaty as well. (We were training at home before my little brother came) 

I didn’t want to be rude and kick him out of the apartment and the same with Maria so we just didn’t say anything. I mean I’m doing him a favour so atleast he could be more cautious of the time! 

When they were talking I felt like my brother acted stupid so that I had a hard time getting in the conversation. He acted stupid by not understanding my point of view. Trust me I was clear what I ment and I don’t have to speak into details like I’m writing a essay or a book. My little brother is smarter than that so why act dumb? 

Bottom Line: It makes me furious to think that I did him a favour and he didn’t even think of the time. Me and Maria was starving and he drank up our last soda as well. Also annoying me by playing dumb is making me angry. I don’t want him to come to my place next time. 

[stillafool]

I'm sorry I don't follow what you're talking about.??????

[preraph]

Well, it was up to YOU to clue him in .  I mean, he's your brother.  You should have either offered to have dinner together or told him, Hey, glad you came by, good luck, it's time for us to get back to our routine.

[Keeves1]

1 hour ago, preraph said:

Well, it was up to YOU to clue him in .  I mean, he's your brother.  You should have either offered to have dinner together or told him, Hey, glad you came by, good luck, it's time for us to get back to our routine.

Yeah I should’ve just told him because he’s my brother so I don’t think he would take it as me being rude. 
 

I just don’t like he’s behaviour like acting stupid. 

[Pumaza]

How both of you ddnt have the balls to tell him get lost?

He can go to the libary, restaurant, or park, etc with his interview.

Beside why they dont have office???

You should have told him to leave.

Holding stuff in,then be mad or act mad doesnt help anyone.

You guys need to learn to speak up .

[smackie9]

hmmmm and you say your GF is the one with communication issues...........Just be a gracious host, it was only one time. They were talking for hours, why didn't you just excuse yourself and have a shower during that time? And then order dinner in and enjoy your brother's visit? Why is it everyone and everything that is in your space is a problem. It doesn't have to be that way if you were more empathetic and positive of the situation. If anything you are the one acting weird making such a big deal out of this. You always let everything eat you inside out like you can't even be comfortable in your own skin.

Edited May 17, 2020 by smackie9

[Malin889]

This is YOUR BROTHER. Make him feel at home at your place! Why didn't you just order food? Or why didn't you have food already for when he came? Why act as if he was a bother? You were annoyed that he drank the last soda? Really? Maybe you should have had more soda before he came. 

And what does this mean? He acted stupid by not understanding my point of view. Trust me I was clear what I ment and I don’t have to speak into details like I’m writing a essay or a book. My little brother is smarter than that so why act dumb? Did you TELL him to leave? 

Also -- I thought you were getting annoyed with your girlfriend being too close and smothering?