Author Markliance Posted May 14, 2020 Author Share Posted May 14, 2020 (edited) 6 minutes ago, assertives said: It isn't much of a "game" if she's leaving you blocked, no? You can't see her profile, can't text her and neither could she. Maybe the call was a butt dial or a touchscreen accident when she meant to block you but accidentally called you instead. So why block, unblock soon after then block again? And why just Whatsapp? Still following each other on Instagram and Facebook. Seems weird to block only on one Edited May 14, 2020 by Markliance Link to post Share on other sites
assertives Posted May 14, 2020 Share Posted May 14, 2020 I have no idea. Only she can answer that. But then, even if you asked her, she may not even be able to give you a coherent answer or one that you'll be satisfied with. So why bother ruminating over this? It's only going to keep you stuck and make you frustrated. Just delete and block her off your social media and everywhere else and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Markliance Posted May 14, 2020 Author Share Posted May 14, 2020 10 minutes ago, assertives said: I have no idea. Only she can answer that. But then, even if you asked her, she may not even be able to give you a coherent answer or one that you'll be satisfied with. So why bother ruminating over this? It's only going to keep you stuck and make you frustrated. Just delete and block her off your social media and everywhere else and move on. By doing that wouldn't I just show I'm bringing myself down to her level? Link to post Share on other sites
assertives Posted May 15, 2020 Share Posted May 15, 2020 8 hours ago, Markliance said: By doing that wouldn't I just show I'm bringing myself down to her level? No. I have no idea why is she doing what she's doing, and neither do you. But deleting her off social media and blocking her is not to get back at her or play a childish game. It's for your own healing. So that you won't get anymore of this random missed calls, empty messages, follow and unfollows, block and unblocks, or new pictures she posted, likes on yours or other people's posts which then sends you down the rabbit hole of trying to decipher why. Blocking and deleting takes her out of sight, out of mind without any distractions from her so you can focus and move on. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted May 15, 2020 Share Posted May 15, 2020 10 hours ago, Markliance said: By doing that wouldn't I just show I'm bringing myself down to her level? No. It would show you don't want contact, which is normal after a break-up. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Markliance Posted May 15, 2020 Author Share Posted May 15, 2020 I've just blocked her on Facebook and Instagram. I feel so sh*t and bad for doing it though. Is that because I'm taking her off the pedestal? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Markliance Posted May 15, 2020 Author Share Posted May 15, 2020 I decided to block then immediately unblock her off Instagram as that's the only way you can get someone to stop following you on there, so we don't follow each other and both accounts are on private, and decided to unfriend her on Facebook as I think it's best. Since doing this I see she has unblocked me on Whatsapp. (Haha and before you ask, I wasn't checking to see if she unblocked, you can tell when you're looking at your list of different chats as the profile pic dissaoears if they have blocked). I don't get this girl 😂 Link to post Share on other sites
Realitysux Posted May 15, 2020 Share Posted May 15, 2020 It's not your job to fix what somebody else broke. If someone broke the relationship then it isn't your job to fix it, they didn't value it, they didn't protect it then it's not your job to fix it. I am learning a lot from someone recently rejecting me! Link to post Share on other sites
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