hu7sy531 Posted May 11, 2020 Share Posted May 11, 2020 I had many girlfriends in my life but physically attach to only one girlfriend and that was almost 7,8 years ago. Even after that girl many girl came to my life and we started chat sexually on chat and after that i ask for real date in private they always make excuses. I thought may be i am not caring myself and gets fat then last year ago i loose my weight going to invest on myself, i loose almost 20 kg and went to gym now i have pretty good body i am tall height person and have very good job, car house. After that turn around i encounter 7,8 girls in last one year mostly purpose me for marriage so didn't reject them but slowly i get distance from them. The girl i met 7,8 year ago done every thing with me what we are seeing in x movies and i get addicted to those things. So now i want relationship full of romance so i can get over my 7,8 years relationship and if girl seriously love me or satisfy me in new relationship then purpose her marriage. but normally girls just ask me for marriage even some of them does phone sex also but when i ask for real meeting then they are making excuses and i never force any girls for meetup even if someone indirectly refuse me for meetup i even can't ask for second time. What should i do now ? how to get over this romance hunger ? Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted May 11, 2020 Share Posted May 11, 2020 What is your definition of romance? What does that look like to you? Link to post Share on other sites
CaliforniaGirl Posted May 14, 2020 Share Posted May 14, 2020 I think what you mean is that you want the hot sex you just hinted at. You don't get over that. Look for a partner who also wants that type of sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Emilie Jolie Posted May 14, 2020 Share Posted May 14, 2020 Hi hu7sy531 I am a little confused by your post: you get asked in marriage by many women you've never met in real life? Is this correct? Do you only meet women online? On actual dating apps? Regardless, phone sex with strangers is not a good idea. Make sure you are on a legitimate website, ask those you match with on actual dates once you've ascertained they are real people, and take it from there. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 14, 2020 Share Posted May 14, 2020 On 5/11/2020 at 5:41 AM, hu7sy531 said: What should i do now ? how to get over this romance hunger ? What you do now is learn that there is a BIG difference between sex & romance. You seem to be confusing the two. You also have to learn that no matter what the girl 7-8 years ago did with you most people do not have sex like in porn movies. Even if you can eventually build the type of trusting, loving relationship with somebody where you can experiment & be freer in your interactions, it takes time -- years -- to build that foundation. Sex is about love & emotional connection. The largest sex organ in the human body is the brain, followed by the heart. The other parts are for the physical only & should not be considered primary when you seek a long term relationship. Put sex on the back burner. Get to know a woman as a person. Do you like how the two of you interact outside of the bedroom? Is she a good conversationalist / do you like talking to her? Do you make each laugh? Do you find her interesting as a person? Once those boxes are checked then you move to making love. You want your souls to connect, not just your genitalia. Somewhere in there you do need to find somebody who's drive & tastes / preferences match yours but if you want romance that comes second. If you are just looking for wham bam, thank you ma'am hot porn sex that exists but rarely with emotion & never with romance at the beginning. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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