Miss Spider Posted May 19, 2020 Share Posted May 19, 2020 Well the one guy I dated long distance constantly requested selfie photos....Can I see your face type thing...Not saying that he didn't want nudes....Im just saying that he was a bottomless pit of innocuous picture requests and I don't like photo documenting every step of my life. My experiences guys want pics, whether nudes or not...but preferably nudes, I'm sure, Link to post Share on other sites
an0nym0us123 Posted May 19, 2020 Share Posted May 19, 2020 Ive had a few women overtime come on very demanding wanting selfies. I actually hate myself in selfies so rarely take them. Wide angle selfie cameras on smart phone distort your entire face. One or two have gone on about wanting selfies to the point where one said she would stop talking to me if i did not send her a selfie as she thought i was fake. Told her fine, stop talking to me then. Next night she was messaging apologising. Link to post Share on other sites
Trail Blazer Posted May 19, 2020 Share Posted May 19, 2020 6 minutes ago, Cookiesandough said: Well the one guy I dated long distance constantly requested selfie photos....Can I see your face type thing...Not saying that he didn't want nudes....Im just saying that he was a bottomless pit of innocuous picture requests and I don't like photo documenting every step of my life. My experiences guys want pics, whether nudes or not...but preferably nudes, I'm sure, I actually never knew this was so prevalent. I've exchanged pics on many occasions with girls I've dated. I've sent selfies through Bumble or PoF (to show I'm in a certain place at the time I'm chatting to them) and they've reciprocated, or not... it's never mattered. Conversely, I've had a few girls request I add them on Snapchat. Generally the girls who've wanted me to add them on Snap are not the ones I'd takr home to Mom - however, the correlation is strong with Snap and those girls sending nudes (without even being asked). I don't know how old you are, I'm guessing young(ish), like under 30? Do you find guys want to add you to Snapchat for those reasons I've outlined above? Snapchat is the most logical medium to exchage nudes, I would have thought. Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Spider Posted May 19, 2020 Share Posted May 19, 2020 (edited) 12 minutes ago, Trail Blazer said: Conversely, I've had a few girls request I add them on Snapchat. Generally the girls who've wanted me to add them on Snap are not the ones I'd takr home to Mom - however, the correlation is strong with Snap and those girls sending nudes (without even being asked). Not sure, I don’t have snap and never really have never taken off with guys who ask if I have it. I just don’t get the ADHD, pic thirsty, social media mentality and already know I wouldn’t vibe well with those people. The guys who’ve asked me I’ve usually been dating a min and it’s over imessengsr Edited May 19, 2020 by Cookiesandough Link to post Share on other sites
Trail Blazer Posted May 19, 2020 Share Posted May 19, 2020 3 minutes ago, Cookiesandough said: Not sure, I don’t have snap and never really have never taken off with guys who ask if I have it. I just don’t get the ADHD, pic thirsty, social media mentality and already know I wouldn’t vibe well with those people. Yeah, I get it. I think for either sex, it's a bit of a red flag (if it's constant) for similar reasons. It's just, if the guy does it, he's seen as a bit of a creep. When a girl's done it to me (not so much as the OP has described - but more in the way of Snapchat) it makes me think, "Oh hey! This one's up for a bit of fun" and not much more. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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