He said he wanted to leave his wife and be together. then closed down

[Amethyst68]

I know this is the OW forum but seriously do you want to be the kind of person who intentionally plays these games to get a MM to leave his 3 young children for? 

Honestly this man's no prize, he's already proven himself a liar and a cheat why would you enter into some kind of manipulative game play with him?

The fact is that MM rarely leave and those that don't often stay with the OW that broke up their marriage. JN's still in the honeymoon stage but I'd be interested to see if he's still with his OW in 5 yrs. I believe the latest stats I read were that less than 10% leave and of that 10% over 75% split within 5 years. There are of course exceptions, one posts here as a matter of fact, but as stated above you could easily find yourself an unattached man and save yourself the bother.

[JimmyNorth]

31 minutes ago, Amethyst68 said:

I know this is the OW forum but seriously do you want to be the kind of person who intentionally plays these games to get a MM to leave his 3 young children for? 

Honestly this man's no prize, he's already proven himself a liar and a cheat why would you enter into some kind of manipulative game play with him?

The fact is that MM rarely leave and those that don't often stay with the OW that broke up their marriage. JN's still in the honeymoon stage but I'd be interested to see if he's still with his OW in 5 yrs. I believe the latest stats I read were that less than 10% leave and of that 10% over 75% split within 5 years. There are of course exceptions, one posts here as a matter of fact, but as stated above you could easily find yourself an unattached man and save yourself the bother.

I’m past honeymoon stage. We are dealing with real life matters, bills, quarrels and such. And still we find time to show eachother we care and love one another. This is the key.

OP may need to start dating to reach her goal weather it be with MM or a new man. 

[Amethyst68]

31 minutes ago, JimmyNorth said:

I’m past honeymoon stage. We are dealing with real life matters, bills, quarrels and such. And still we find time to show eachother we care and love one another. This is the key.

OP may need to start dating to reach her goal weather it be with MM or a new man. 

JN, I meant honeymoon stage in the sense of a relationship in the first 2-3 years where a couple are first truly together. It's a phase most couples go through while still dealing with real life. 

[SummerDreams]

He is telling you he won't leave his wife and kids. What more do you really want to let him be and find yourself a man who will only want to be with you and has no baggage?