a love/sex question-please reply need it for tonight

[Linda_411]

Alright should I be worried if we had sex twice last night, and he didn't even say I love you at night, or in the morning? Like he said it only once to me, and it seems like I always have to say I love you first in order for him to say it back. So now I quit saying i love you to him. what should I do? Should I ask him about it asking him if he really does love him, i dunno it just upsets me.

[helena abadi]

yes, quit saying i love you. guys sometimes feel pressure to say i love you back, even when they don't feel like it or mean it.

 

if he says it first, it will mean so much more.

 

sounds as tho you are looking for reassurance that it isn't just sex.

[LucreziaBorgia]

How long have you been together?

[whichwayisup]

Even though it is nice to hear I love you in words, look for his actions. How he is with you. Does he steal glances at you and smile? Hold your hand, cuddle etc? For men, in my experience, it's the little things in actions that show you how much they love you.

[Linda_411]

Well weve been dating for almost 7 months, and he told me that he loved me about 3 weeks ago. I just thought that he should say I love you alot more. Oh yeah, did I forget to mention he said I love after he had a little too much to drink. Although the next day, he said that he did mean what he said. So what do you think I should do?

[whichwayisup]

Give it some time. Don't push it because men tend to not be open books with the emotions, so like I mentioned, look for his love for you in his actions. Words are nice, but it is what he does that counts...