stillafool Posted May 16, 2020 Share Posted May 16, 2020 What nationality is this guy? Now I'm curious. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted May 16, 2020 Share Posted May 16, 2020 21 hours ago, Loveisonlyformovies said: We met up this Monday morning and ended up in bed almost immediately. I don't regret the sex because it's been so long since last (he's also my second partner ever So i don't really sleep around for fun either). But the day after I did a more careful serch of him and found several more children and a girlfriend... Beeing cheated on in the past, I obviously made her aware of the situation and his life is kind of falling to bits now. He did say he had moved out a few weeks before we met but im not sure. So you had sex with him the first time on Monday and then the next day you found out he has a girlfriend and kids so you reached out and told her? Why? Did he trick you into having sex?? You know you will probably not see him again don't you? He probably thinks you're a psycho or a bunny boiler at this point and scared to death of you. He got what he deserved for cheating on his girlfriend so good for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Loveisonlyformovies Posted May 16, 2020 Author Share Posted May 16, 2020 1 minute ago, stillafool said: So you had sex with him the first time on Monday and then the next day you found out he has a girlfriend and kids so you reached out and told her? Why? Did he trick you into having sex?? You know you will probably not see him again don't you? He probably thinks you're a psycho or a bunny boiler at this point and scared to death of you. He got what he deserved for cheating on his girlfriend so good for you. Because my ex cheated on me and i wish i had been told sooner. They have a very sick child so I felt like I was doing her a favor. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted May 16, 2020 Share Posted May 16, 2020 Well now that you know they have a sick child why would you go after him? His girlfriend doesn't need more pain and stress than she's already experiencing. Link to post Share on other sites
Realitysux Posted May 16, 2020 Share Posted May 16, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, Loveisonlyformovies said: It was literally just five days ago :s I want answers. Ive tried to move on. I try to talk to new people but they all are of wrong nationality with the wrong mindset and the wrong intelligence. It took me 2 years to come across this guy and he wasnt even real. How many mlre years of my life do i need to suffer through and hate before i find someone who doesnt make me feel lonely again? I can't answer that. It took me 30 years to feel it and 7 years to be able to move on. I used to feel terrible and all I wanted was this person. It was like if I can just be with this man for a bit then I'd feel better. That would have worked for me only it wasn't what he wanted. It has too be two sided and mutual for it to work. The minute you stop looking at someone that you can't have then you are probably going to find someone you can. Edited May 16, 2020 by Realitysux Link to post Share on other sites
Author Loveisonlyformovies Posted May 16, 2020 Author Share Posted May 16, 2020 2 hours ago, stillafool said: Well now that you know they have a sick child why would you go after him? His girlfriend doesn't need more pain and stress than she's already experiencing. Since when am i going after him? She looks like a proper bitch so im sure she deserved it anyway Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted May 16, 2020 Share Posted May 16, 2020 47 minutes ago, Loveisonlyformovies said: Since when am i going after him? She looks like a proper bitch so im sure she deserved it anyway From your posts it sounded like you want to keep in touch with this guy and have more sex with him. To me that is going after him. If she is a "proper bitch" that must be his type if she's his girlfriend. What did he lie to you about that you need answers to? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Loveisonlyformovies Posted May 16, 2020 Author Share Posted May 16, 2020 19 minutes ago, stillafool said: From your posts it sounded like you want to keep in touch with this guy and have more sex with him. To me that is going after him. If she is a "proper bitch" that must be his type if she's his girlfriend. What did he lie to you about that you need answers to? I wanna know why he put me through it after knowing about the hell I had with my ex. But when I've asked today he said it all was real and that he felt about lying and that his life has fallen to bits now. So im not sure what to make from it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Loveisonlyformovies Posted May 17, 2020 Author Share Posted May 17, 2020 Oh great. Ex insists on being stockholm and no response from the new guy when saying I want to see him again. Having searched through the dating site, not a single person gets even near to what I seek... Why does my bad luck never end? Link to post Share on other sites
Realitysux Posted May 17, 2020 Share Posted May 17, 2020 (edited) 16 minutes ago, Loveisonlyformovies said: Oh great. Ex insists on being stockholm and no response from the new guy when saying I want to see him again. Having searched through the dating site, not a single person gets even near to what I seek... Why does my bad luck never end? Well you can't win. You can't win. My advice is to walk away and wish them the best. Believe me, the both men are not only sleeping with other women but enjoying it. What do you get? Nothing. Edited May 17, 2020 by Realitysux Link to post Share on other sites
Author Loveisonlyformovies Posted May 17, 2020 Author Share Posted May 17, 2020 5 minutes ago, Realitysux said: Well you can't win. You can't win. My advice is to walk away and wish them the best. Believe me, the guy both men are not only sleeping with other women but enjoying it. What do you get? Nothing. Actually neither of them are, especially not my ex. That i know for a fact. Out of me and them, im the only one trying to get laid. And i love a bit of drama, wanna see how it plays out for this new guy if he lets me. Link to post Share on other sites
Realitysux Posted May 17, 2020 Share Posted May 17, 2020 (edited) I don't think I want anymore drama. I'm going to get off this site for a bit. I am in no better shape then when I logged on. The guy is only holding me down further and progressing in his real life relationship. If I log off, it should be gone and I should be able to move on. Time heals all! Edited May 17, 2020 by Realitysux Link to post Share on other sites
Cookiesandough Posted May 21, 2020 Share Posted May 21, 2020 Whoah.. you slept with him... then you told her???! That’s freaking brutal lol 1 Link to post Share on other sites
DKT3 Posted May 21, 2020 Share Posted May 21, 2020 I'm not sure what to make of this. Ex boyfriend who was cheating during the relationship is now not having sex...for two years? Yeah, that's not delusional thinking. Judging from the way the other dudes wife looks, she deserves to be cheated on. This after saying you don't want to cause pain because they have a suck kid. This cant be legitimate. Can it? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Loveisonlyformovies Posted May 24, 2020 Author Share Posted May 24, 2020 On 5/22/2020 at 1:26 AM, DKT3 said: I'm not sure what to make of this. Ex boyfriend who was cheating during the relationship is now not having sex...for two years? Yeah, that's not delusional thinking. Judging from the way the other dudes wife looks, she deserves to be cheated on. This after saying you don't want to cause pain because they have a suck kid. This cant be legitimate. Can it? No my ex has been on meds that has made it impossible for him to have sex. I had to get him off them to still get laid until a few months ago. Now he's stuck in quarantine with his mum, so doubtful. He's also incredibly shy. The sick kid isn't hers I think, their one is younger and the sick one seems to belong to a previous ex. I just want to get laid at this point and he is literally the third guy I've ever felt attracted to so it is hard to let him go. Hes clearly not boyfriend material and my ex made it clear to me the other day that I'll never find a guy who actually cares about me so why would I even bother to find one at this point? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Loveisonlyformovies Posted May 24, 2020 Author Share Posted May 24, 2020 On 5/22/2020 at 12:25 AM, Cookiesandough said: Whoah.. you slept with him... then you told her???! That’s freaking brutal lol Of course I had to tell her. Straight up said he's s*** in bed and im amazed she can put up with it. I know it's contradictory as i still wanna do him, but I enjoy the challenge in making someone much better in bed Link to post Share on other sites
Author Loveisonlyformovies Posted May 24, 2020 Author Share Posted May 24, 2020 I just can't snap out of it. Cant remember ever feeling worse than this. I hate every minute of every day when I can't share it with someone and after all this im fully convinced I'll never find anyone who actually cares. I don't know what to do Link to post Share on other sites
DKT3 Posted May 24, 2020 Share Posted May 24, 2020 This whole thread is one contradiction after another. Its simply not adding up. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted May 24, 2020 Share Posted May 24, 2020 On 5/16/2020 at 2:17 PM, Loveisonlyformovies said: I wanna know why he put me through it after knowing about the hell I had with my ex. But when I've asked today he said it all was real and that he felt about lying and that his life has fallen to bits now. So im not sure what to make from it. Put you through what? He only saw you once. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Loveisonlyformovies Posted May 24, 2020 Author Share Posted May 24, 2020 2 hours ago, stillafool said: Put you through what? He only saw you once. What has meeting me once to do with anything? He still knows absolutely everything about me and still chose to lie.. Link to post Share on other sites
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