Author TheTruth711 Posted May 23, 2020 Author Share Posted May 23, 2020 Thanks again for the advice and support. I appreciate each and every one of you! Just today, after two days of silence, he suggested not watching porn or masturbating while our child is in the same room. He added, preferably same house. We’re in a small one bedroom apt and I normally did it in the shower anyway but now I can’t since schools are still closed due to covid. He insists/implies that these activities(I agree about the porn) are ways the devil comes into our lives and affects us. Went as far as saying it may not affect me but may affect our child or siblings or parents. Well I told him not to worry about that because we won’t be having sex. I repeatedly in the past told him that after sex I still feel the need to come and remain horny until I do. So the vibe would help me quickly get over that and focus on other things. Anyway I made it clear there won’t be any more sex since it leads to that. All this stress because of a pinky sized gadget! Link to post Share on other sites
SweetCharity Posted May 24, 2020 Share Posted May 24, 2020 3 hours ago, TheTruth711 said: Thanks again for the advice and support. I appreciate each and every one of you! Just today, after two days of silence, he suggested not watching porn or masturbating while our child is in the same room. He added, preferably same house. We’re in a small one bedroom apt and I normally did it in the shower anyway but now I can’t since schools are still closed due to covid. He insists/implies that these activities(I agree about the porn) are ways the devil comes into our lives and affects us. Went as far as saying it may not affect me but may affect our child or siblings or parents. Well I told him not to worry about that because we won’t be having sex. I repeatedly in the past told him that after sex I still feel the need to come and remain horny until I do. So the vibe would help me quickly get over that and focus on other things. Anyway I made it clear there won’t be any more sex since it leads to that. All this stress because of a pinky sized gadget! I still think you should divorce him. Link to post Share on other sites
Just a Guy Posted May 24, 2020 Share Posted May 24, 2020 Hi Truth, after reading your responses I have to ask you what you want? How do you see or expect your situation to resolve? In other words, how do you see the cookie crumble? What surprises me is that you are living in a country which has an open society and people are very open minded about matters pertaining to sex and sexual practices. For your husband to harbour the kind of ideas as outlined by you and for you to be feeling guilty for using a vibrator seems outmoded. I guess both of you need to be attending IC to clear your minds of all the cobwebs cluttering your minds. As I have said before, if the Almighty in His/Her wisdom has given us humans the gift of sex, I am sure that He/She wanted us to make full use of it and to enjoy it responsibly to the fullest extent. I am not asking you to discard your religion. All I am saying is that all religions have acquired a lot of baggage over the centuries which has not been sanctioned by the Almighty but is the creation of mortal priests and elders of the various religions and which need not be our guide to living our lives. If anything we should seek our answers from the spiritual realm which will give one the true answers to one's queries. So the question before you is to ask yourself what you want or how you want the situation you are facing to resolve. Think about it. Was wishes. Link to post Share on other sites
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