How can I date white women.

[observingman37]

18 minutes ago, rjc149 said:

I meant the pre-martial sex part. 

I think a Christian dating site would be good, unless you're Muslim? 

You know I would go on a christian or muslim dating site but I don't know will they accept me.

I'm a baha'i.

[observingman37]

11 minutes ago, Lotsgoingon said:

Sounds like you are looking for religious women ... do you want to date women who don't believe in sex before marriage? 

Just those two categories, religious and virgin, narrows down your options dramatically. I don't mean this critically, but just saying you got to get a lot more specific about the qualities you want. 

She actually doesn't have to be religious. But it's strongly recommended that she at least believe in God.

What I'm looking for in a woman is:

Obviously white.

Her height is 5'0 to 5'4

She doesn't drink.

She doesn't have tattoos, if possible.

I can probably go with a non virgin, but it is strongly recommended that she is a virgin like I am.

And she just have a positive look on life in general.

 

 

 

Edited May 20, 2020 by observingman37

[rjc149]

17 minutes ago, observingman37 said:

You know I would go on a christian or muslim dating site but I don't know will they accept me.

I'm a baha'i.

And I’m assuming you don’t have a Baha’i congregation to join, or there are no eligible white women there.

Aside from the advice given, good luck. Normally I would advise you to get more dating experience before narrowing down your criteria like that, but to each his own.

Edited May 20, 2020 by rjc149

[observingman37]

2 minutes ago, rjc149 said:

And I’m assuming you don’t have a Baha’i congregation to join, or there are no eligible white there.

Aside from the advice given, good luck.

The group is not that big. It is a fairly new religion.

Thanks though.

[Sarabi]

2 hours ago, observingman37 said:

Ok. So what suburbs are close to detroit?

Hey! Not white. Not even American BUT I can answer this one!

I know a tiny bit about some Detroit suburbs based on previous experience meeting/working people from said Suburbs

Southfield, Farmington Hills, Bloomfield Hills and Bloomington.

All the people I met from the latter three at least, would correspond to your needs (white). Also very affluent areas...

Good luck!

Edited May 20, 2020 by Sarabi
mistake in information given

[observingman37]

3 minutes ago, Sarabi said:

Hey! Not white. Not even American BUT I can answer this one!

I know a tiny bit about some Detroit suburbs based on previous experience meeting/working people from said Suburbs

Southfield, Farmington Hills, Bloomfield Hills and Bloomington.

All the people I met from the latter three at least, would correspond to your needs (white). Also very affluent areas...

Good luck!

Thanks for the information.

[Lotsgoingon]

I had some friends who were Baha'i. Maybe their situation was unique, but when they invited me to events, there were tons of interracial couples. You sure there's not a larger baha'i group near you? The groups I met had black and white women. 

[simpycurious]

My advice would be to date them very carefully........as in be careful they are feisty generally speaking

[MsJayne]

I can't believe you're having trouble finding suitable matches, most caucasian women I know find dark guys attractive, and one of my friends is plain queer for black US basketballers, (no, she's not a Kardashian, she has all her own body parts and an IQ over 70).  How tall are you? I'll send her over if you're interested in a 64 year old. She's wealthy if that helps,  and recently quit drinking so she's lost a bit of weight and is now only 96kg.  

Edited May 21, 2020 by MsJayne

[observingman37]

24 minutes ago, Lotsgoingon said:

I had some friends who were Baha'i. Maybe their situation was unique, but when they invited me to events, there were tons of interracial couples. You sure there's not a larger baha'i group near you? The groups I met had black and white women. 

Yes, we believe in the unity of the human species.

I was just saying that the baha'i faith is a new religion overall and that there's not that many baha'is in the world.

 

Edited May 21, 2020 by observingman37

[SincereOnlineGuy]

2 minutes ago, enigma32 said:

You want a white woman that doesn't drink, doesn't have tattoos, you prefer a virgin, and you won't have sex until marriage? Buddy, I hope you do go to church, because you need a miracle if you think you are gonna find that girl anywhere near Detroit. 

 

Don't forget... there is the flooding...

 

as for the baha'i religion...   what little awareness I have is all positive

 

The OP will still need to be PRO-active, and with the world being what it is in 2020, it could realistically come about for him...     but even when people seem to buck various trends and find one another out there, how long does it last??

 

 

[Realitysux]

5 minutes ago, observingman37 said:

Yes, we believe in the unity of the human species.

I was just saying that the baha'i faith is a new religion overall and that there's not that many baha'is in the world.

 

You just want the women do be white? Are there any other qualities you are looking for besides race? You want to marry a white girl because she is white?

[observingman37]

15 minutes ago, MsJayne said:

I can't believe you're having trouble finding suitable matches, most caucasian women I know find dark guys attractive, and one of my friends is plain queer for black US basketballers, (no, she's not a Kardashian, she has all her own body parts and an IQ over 70).  How tall are you? I'll send her over if you're interested in a 64 year old. She's wealthy if that helps,  and recently quit drinking so she's lost a bit of weight and is now only 96kg.  

64yo???

You're joking right?

 

I didn't really signed up completely on the sites, so maybe if I did I'll probably get more matches.

[observingman37]

25 minutes ago, enigma32 said:

You want a white woman that doesn't drink, doesn't have tattoos, you prefer a virgin, and you won't have sex until marriage? Buddy, I hope you do go to church, because you need a miracle if you think you are gonna find that girl anywhere near Detroit. 

Well if you were listening I said she definitely doesn't drink but maybe I can let up on the other criterias.

 

Edited May 21, 2020 by observingman37

[Gr8fuln2020]

5 hours ago, Cookiesandough said:

I second the dating apps. Or even a regular dating app, but set filters. If no luck with that, maybe  move to Utah?

Ha Ha Ha  ! Yep, lots and lots of white women here. Most will not date outside of their 'race' for obvious reasons, both cultural and religious. But, things are getting more progressive. You will find that most who are adventurous enough to date outside their 'race' or culture, are from outside of the state.   I know from experience.   I have successfully dated, but long-term relationship prospects have not been had. A lot of under the hood issues that come up keeps me searching out of state. Actually, seriously, just use POF or OKCupid and venture out. You need to have your A-game plan setup. 

Edited May 21, 2020 by Gr8fuln2020

[observingman37]

8 minutes ago, Realitysux said:

You just want the women do be white? Are there any other qualities you are looking for besides race? You want to marry a white girl because she is white?

I wrote this down earlier but I'll do it again here.

 

What I'm looking for in a woman is:

Obviously white.

Her height is 5'0 to 5'4

She doesn't drink.

She doesn't have tattoos, if possible.

I can probably go with a non virgin, but it is strongly recommended that she is a virgin like I am.

And she just have a positive look on life in general.

 

Me being attracted to white women is just simply my preference.

[Gr8fuln2020]

23 minutes ago, observingman37 said:

What I'm looking for in a woman is:

Obviously white.

Her height is 5'0 to 5'4

She doesn't drink.

She doesn't have tattoos, if possible.

I can probably go with a non virgin, but it is strongly recommended that she is a virgin like I am.

And she just have a positive look on life in general.

The first two are not too difficult, in general.  

Doesn't drink gets a little more complicated. As in ever? If so, you will either meet very religious or very health conscious and active. Are you the latter? You seem like the first. And the religious beliefs will almost certainly frown upon your particular faith. 

No tattoos? Yep, more religious, but many who are not also resist tattoos. I have met quite a few who do not have tattoos. But that doesn't seem to be a deal-breaker for you. 

Probably go with a non-virgin??? Good luck with that. Again, you are going back to the religious and many are not as chaste as once upon a time. Again, they will tend to look at your flavour of faith with suspicion. 

Positive look on life, in general, well, that is a hit or miss.  

Maybe you should stick with your own faith circles? 

[observingman37]

34 minutes ago, Gr8fuln2020 said:

The first two are not too difficult, in general.  

Doesn't drink gets a little more complicated. As in ever? If so, you will either meet very religious or very health conscious and active. Are you the latter? You seem like the first. And the religious beliefs will almost certainly frown upon your particular faith. 

No tattoos? Yep, more religious, but many who are not also resist tattoos. I have met quite a few who do not have tattoos. But that doesn't seem to be a deal-breaker for you. 

Probably go with a non-virgin??? Good luck with that. Again, you are going back to the religious and many are not as chaste as once upon a time. Again, they will tend to look at your flavour of faith with suspicion. 

Positive look on life, in general, well, that is a hit or miss.  

Maybe you should stick with your own faith circles? 

Well I am an hopeful person, so I'm just treading carefully and seeking what can I find.

There is a site called singleandsober.com

a dating site for non drinkers.

[observingman37]

1 hour ago, simpycurious said:

My advice would be to date them very carefully........as in be careful they are feisty generally speaking

Well any women can be feisty. I'm just trying to find the ones that are not.

[Gr8fuln2020]

19 minutes ago, observingman37 said:

Well I am an hopeful person, so I'm just treading carefully and seeking what can I find.

There is a site called singleandsober.com

a dating site for non drinkers.

And/or a site for recovering alcoholics, drug-users, etc. Honestly, any dating site is going to be only as good as the people who put up the profiles and every one of them is prone to abuse and deception. I know, obvious, right? Good luck. 

[MsJayne]

2 hours ago, observingman37 said:

64yo???

You're joking right?

 

I didn't really signed up completely on the sites, so maybe if I did I'll probably get more matches.

Haha! Absolutely I'm joking 🤣   Except about most women finding dark-skinned guys extremely attractive.  

[observingman37]

2 hours ago, observingman37 said:

 

 

Edited May 21, 2020 by observingman37

[Cookiesandough]

A Dave Matthews or Ben folds concert 😒

[elaine567]

Why are you 37 and now looking for such a "rare" woman? 
What is your dating history like?

[Fletch Lives]

"Where all da white wimmin at?!" - Blazing Saddles

"Mongo only pawn in game of life"