Rosieroo17 Posted July 2, 2020 Share Posted July 2, 2020 On 6/13/2020 at 11:08 PM, Datergirl said: I've been in an abusive relationship, verbally and physically. It does not get getter. I, like you, kept holding out hope that things would get better, but they just got worse, a lot worse. I ended it several times but always went back. It's been two weeks now since I last told him its over. The only way I know I can keep my resolve is by blocking all forms of communication from him, including his family and friends. I won't go back this time. My life is 100% happier without him in it dragging me down. Some of the names he would call me are so disgusting, but, if you think about it, it's themselves they are describing. You must do this for you. Do you really want to look at what you're life will be like with this guy? You already know. You have to make the break. I went to Womens Aid. The support I received was incredible. Emotional support. Highly recommend this in your action plan. You don't need this person in your life anymore. I am going through this right now. I am leaving my husband who was moody and angry and in those moments said some awful things. He has a good side which i love but the last year he has been really bad and just shut off and mean to me. I have kept also and im just about to leave , and i do feel a pull to go back but i have to stay strong as I know if wont change. It really resonates when you say about the names he calls me as yes i believe thats what he feels about himself. Link to post Share on other sites
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