QuietRiot Posted May 23, 2020 Share Posted May 23, 2020 I've noticed with someone of the ladies' online dating profiles...I swear...it's like I feel like I am being yelled at our being condescended to. A lot of caps and "If you're not this, this and this" (sometimes they are numbered list" "Do not waste my time!" And sometimes they forget they've written, "Do not waste my time!" already when they inadvertently wrote it twice. lol It's like they have an axe to grind. I pretty much met every requirement...and then she said, "I do not watch movies" I found that kind of odd, because I have never known a person to not watch a single movie? So I asked her, "You've never watched a movie? When was the last time you saw one?" and she blocked me as if I had a lot of nerve to be asking. Link to post Share on other sites
miranda561 Posted May 23, 2020 Share Posted May 23, 2020 2 hours ago, QuietRiot said: I've noticed with someone of the ladies' online dating profiles...I swear...it's like I feel like I am being yelled at our being condescended to. A lot of caps and "If you're not this, this and this" (sometimes they are numbered list" "Do not waste my time!" And sometimes they forget they've written, "Do not waste my time!" already when they inadvertently wrote it twice. lol It's like they have an axe to grind. I pretty much met every requirement...and then she said, "I do not watch movies" I found that kind of odd, because I have never known a person to not watch a single movie? So I asked her, "You've never watched a movie? When was the last time you saw one?" and she blocked me as if I had a lot of nerve to be asking. They're obviously women who have had bad experiences with regards to dating. Same goes for men who say the same thing. It puts me off from conversing with a man that has no time wasters on their profile. Comes across a little crazy 1 Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted May 23, 2020 Share Posted May 23, 2020 (edited) Yep , back in the day during my short stint all that stuff was very common on profiles.l don't care what their excuse guys have been through crap too but to bang on like that on her profile , not any woman l'd wanna know. Some would be whole long paragraphs in block , of all their hates, some would repeat their hates 5 or 10 times , some would say nothing about themselves but just have some stupid long list of everything they were looking for , good luck with that. lt was mindblowingly crazy shyt and pretty unbelievable . lotta very very stupid women out there let me tell ya , don't go near anything like that, don't even waste your time wth would you anyway. Any woman writing like that is a train wreck, look for calm sane sensible nicely vibed people no man hate profiles in what you like. Edited May 23, 2020 by chillii 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author QuietRiot Posted May 23, 2020 Author Share Posted May 23, 2020 52 minutes ago, chillii said: Yep , back in the day during my short stint all that stuff was very common on profiles.l don't care what their excuse guys have been through crap too but to bang on like that on her profile , not any woman l'd wanna know. Some would be whole long paragraphs in block , of all their hates, some would repeat their hates 5 or 10 times , some would say nothing about themselves but just have some stupid long list of everything they were looking for , good luck with that. lt was mindblowingly crazy shyt and pretty unbelievable . lotta very very stupid women out there let me tell ya , don't go near anything like that, don't even waste your time wth would you anyway. Any woman writing like that is a train wreck, look for calm sane sensible nicely vibed people no man hate profiles in what you like. Yeah, I"ve actually read entire profiles that was just a RANT-like blog entry. That was it. NOTHING about themselves. NOTHING about what they want in a man. I remember seeing a woman saying something like "Only email me if you're sexy...(and other crap)" but the "sexy" part made me laugh. As if I'm suppose to know that. ! LOL 2 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 23, 2020 Share Posted May 23, 2020 Don't get upset. Be thankful that angry broken people who are in no frame of mind to have a relationship or be a good a partner identify themselves as such in their profiles. Going forward, don't even contact women who have those phrases in their profiles. Instead find potential partners with happy positive upbeat profiles. 8 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted May 23, 2020 Share Posted May 23, 2020 Its like women complaining about dick pics or guys who are all about sex, or who are creepy or scary or nasty or cold or aloof etc. It is easily rectified - STAY AWAY. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Trail Blazer Posted May 23, 2020 Share Posted May 23, 2020 9 hours ago, chillii said: Yep , back in the day during my short stint all that stuff was very common on profiles.l don't care what their excuse guys have been through crap too but to bang on like that on her profile , not any woman l'd wanna know. Some would be whole long paragraphs in block , of all their hates, some would repeat their hates 5 or 10 times , some would say nothing about themselves but just have some stupid long list of everything they were looking for , good luck with that. lt was mindblowingly crazy shyt and pretty unbelievable . lotta very very stupid women out there let me tell ya , don't go near anything like that, don't even waste your time wth would you anyway. Any woman writing like that is a train wreck, look for calm sane sensible nicely vibed people no man hate profiles in what you like. This! Spot on, my friend! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Trail Blazer Posted May 23, 2020 Share Posted May 23, 2020 8 hours ago, QuietRiot said: Yeah, I"ve actually read entire profiles that was just a RANT-like blog entry. That was it. NOTHING about themselves. NOTHING about what they want in a man. I remember seeing a woman saying something like "Only email me if you're sexy...(and other crap)" but the "sexy" part made me laugh. As if I'm suppose to know that. ! LOL There's a lot of damaged people out there and you're best off giving anyone who displays this sort of behavior a very wide berth. Regardless of how hot she is, what you've described has always been a major red flag for me. Accept it for what it is; a damaged person projecting, and move on. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Ellener Posted May 23, 2020 Share Posted May 23, 2020 @QuietRiot I think if it's going to be a fun experience OLD- got to have a sense of humour...which is how I'd take a 'never seen a movie?' comment I suppose, though I wouldn't bother messaging anything negative about movies in the first place. I've no idea why someone would write some of the crap people put up but it's not worth messing about for me, I know I won't get on well with someone who is ill-mannered or aggessive or passive-aggressive etc and some people seem to enjoy bickering as part of flirting, game-playing that seems to me. I've had nice experiences with the men I've talked to so far or been out with, but anyone who writes a diatribe I would just use the feature which removes their profile from my searches etc. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted May 23, 2020 Share Posted May 23, 2020 9 hours ago, d0nnivain said: Don't get upset. Be thankful that angry broken people who are in no frame of mind to have a relationship or be a good a partner identify themselves as such in their profiles. Going forward, don't even contact women who have those phrases in their profiles. Instead find potential partners with happy positive upbeat profiles. Yep , exactly. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliforniaGirl Posted May 24, 2020 Share Posted May 24, 2020 Forget it then, why consider responding? Some people really are mad, a lot of people actually are fed up, especially with OLD. You can see that right here. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Spider Posted May 26, 2020 Share Posted May 26, 2020 Haha I didn’t really know where to put this. So hope you don’t mind if I put it in your thread, where it seems ok to complain about online dating. I saw this guys profile and the first sentence was how he loves with his mom and stuff and I’m like that’s cool, no judge but then “I’m what ‘nice guys’ pretend to be “ Now I’ve heard everything xD Link to post Share on other sites
Gr8fuln2020 Posted May 26, 2020 Share Posted May 26, 2020 Two way street. Lot's of s***ty men out there and plenty of women pissed off with the games. It really is simple as avoiding the angry profiles and moving on. I see a few angry profiles, but not that crazy angry. Some are rather diplomatic about their frustrations, but trudge along. As far as movies go, I have seen some who claim not to watch movies and some come right out and explain that that is just plain lazy and unimaginative. Some are also enlightening enough to explain that it is hard to get to know someone, have a conversation while watching a movie. Initially, at least. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted May 26, 2020 Share Posted May 26, 2020 People who are that bitter towards the opposite sex shouldn't even be dating. Be glad they show you that side before you even click on their profile because dating women like this is a nightmare. You can never please a man hater no matter what because at the end of the day you are still a man and therefore the enemy. Link to post Share on other sites
The Outlaw Posted May 26, 2020 Share Posted May 26, 2020 'I don't like this, I don't like that, I hate this, I hate that-' why are ya even here then? I'd keep on a scrollin'. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted May 26, 2020 Share Posted May 26, 2020 (edited) Some of this is probably just about people who are angry in general. They probably have "no time wasters!" written on what they sell on eBay. Edited May 26, 2020 by basil67 Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Spider Posted May 26, 2020 Share Posted May 26, 2020 (edited) Haha for real though,, why would you ever want to be what nice guys pretend to be, and if you couldn’t help it, why would you EVER admit that? I also see a lot of profiles where guys are like “EDIT: Okay if you are a cam girl or bot, do NOT message me” Haha okie doke dude, I’m sure the bots are totally going to respect your wishes. That is the same as “no Players!!!” You might as well write “btw I’m super gullible” 😂 Then the shirtless man who is “looking for something serious” paradox 🤔 Pics with tranquilized wild animals....no thanks. SMH, online dating. Who am I kidding? Online dating is a source of bountiful entertainment for me. Edited May 26, 2020 by Cookiesandough Link to post Share on other sites
nospam99 Posted May 27, 2020 Share Posted May 27, 2020 @cookies. I try to restrain myself from posting to do nothing more than LOL. But I'll make an exception for ''Online dating is a source of bountiful entertainment for me.'' 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ellener Posted May 27, 2020 Share Posted May 27, 2020 On 5/25/2020 at 11:53 PM, Gr8fuln2020 said: avoiding the angry profiles There's a phrase people like to use 'you must be', I just remove those profiles. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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