My ex got a girl pregnant and

[Destoo]

Hi. Little bit over a year ago I broke up with my ex   We were still messing around  I still had  feeling for him and he still  had feeling for me but  I been  with him  for 2 year and the Reason  but I broke up with him October 1,2018 and why I broke up with was because he starting to because disrespectful towards me and I stared college he stared to accuse me of talking to someone in my school he started to become insecure. And also he didn’t have  a job for a year and  I got him into my old job and he quit that job within 3 weeks. It’s just like he wasn’t even trying to do better.  I just got tired Of  him asking money just got tried of pretty much being  the only person that’s trying. So back to the summer so in the summer  we were still talking messing around  and in the summer I think I pretty much stayed and still  was messing around with him  was because  I still was in love with him  I kind of kept my distance from him because we have broken up and I wanted  to give him time and space so he could change  so eventually we can get back together which he didn’t change. But I also told him like if he is messing around a.k.a. f***ing someone else let me know Which he told me he wasn’t. And I believe him because he claimed he was so obsessed with me and still love me that he wouldn’t have sex with anyone else and I believe  he  was still in love which  I believe because he was still blow up my phone still pop up at my house . Then come to realize it was the end of the summer he told me that he got some girl pregnant at first I was like OK I shouldn’t get mad because you’re not my boyfriend but then I had to think he lied and said he didn’t have sex with anyone else and obviously use unprotected sex with her and this whole time I wasn’t having sex with anyone  but him because I don’t get down like that.   And in my heart I still have feeling for  Him I would have never thought he would get someone pregnant  my heart  Hurts like so bad still until this   Day I still talk to him and still mess around with him I know I have to stop eventually  because as of today she is giving birth to his son and I just cant play stepmother role with someone I thought that I would have children with have a child by someone else  it hurts  although I still got love  for him  but deep down inside I know it would hurt me even more to stay with him knowing deep  down inside I’m still not over the situation  With someone I love I thought of a future with have a baby with someone else you guys I’m still young I just turned 20 there 3 days  ago  I still love him and everything but I feel like how do I should still explore my options although Its may hurt I just shouldn’t be stuck in this situation this long so am I being childish if I love him should I still be with him Even If he have a child with someone else that he claimed it was just a one night stand with? Or should I just cut him  off completely and  move on with life? He say’s it would hurt him for me to leave he wouldn’t do the same to me If it was Vice versa. Idk this whole situation and what he did to me just don’t sit right by me

[TeddyBundy1993]

You are 20 lol.  Wtf is wrong with you ? He has knocked a girl pregnant and she will be having his baby you dont need to involve yourself in this drama. You have life ahead of you girl. Stop thinking and messing around with this guy. You will grow in coming years and meet much great guys. Close this chapter of your life. Year later when you look back at this stage you will see you did right to leave. He is a family man technically let him deal with the mess he made. Child at such age when you dont have good job is surely a road to disaster. He says he would not leave you if situation was vice versa,  it's not something I'd buy he is cleanly manipulating you into a guilt trip while he f***ed around girls playing innocent in front of you.  Cut all ties with him, let him learn from his mistake  hes not worth it. I m sure you'll get same advice from others too