Realitysux Posted May 25, 2020 Share Posted May 25, 2020 (edited) There is this man I was obssed with and I kept emailing him over the course of 7 years. They were very inappropriate. He wouldn't respond directly but he would respond through other people and online. He would also write to me about how we would reconnect and then change his story writing to breaking up and him meeting someone else. I did not stop contacting him, instead I engaged. He made fun of my apearance, my education, my writing and would have real people in my city connect with me and tell me to move on. This did happen! I would get offline but for some reason I did not have the strength to leave it. I'm over the man now and respect he is with someone but how do I move on as it became really insulting to me. The fact that so many people were involved makes me feel completely violated and defeated. They called me emotionally unavailable, suggested I shared too much, and were a little too pushy when it came to finding someone else when I still feel really terrible . They tried to guilt me by suggesting he was a nice guy who stood by me but I never even had an opportunity to talk to him directly and I don't think we ever Would. I sent him a lot of texts pleading with him to stop but the more I did this, the more they would tell me horrible things about myself. I need some help moving past this. Edited May 25, 2020 by Realitysux Link to post Share on other sites
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