ANN98 Posted May 31, 2020 Share Posted May 31, 2020 I met this guy at uni, I am 22, he is 24. He is a shy guy, really introverted. I was the one initiating our conversations but he was always thankful for that. We kept texting everyday, then I asked him for face time, because of corona. He agreed to do it one day. I texted him on saturday if we could facetime , he said he would prefer to do it the next day because he was helping out his dad. I had no problem with that. The next day I was waiting for him to reach out but he hadn't. I texted him saying that I thought he would text me, he was sending me only emojis. The next day he texted he is sorry that he hadn't reached out but he is busy helping his dad at work as now they have less of workers. I was okay with that as well, we kept texting a bit. We were texting/joking about games and he said he had finished 3 games last weekend and I would never do that. Then I texted him "Yea, I won't beat that, you're old and experienced" - which was a joke that I always told him. He said then out of nowhere that I am annoying and he is not talking to me. I just texted "ok" because he had never been so rude before. Four days later he just blocked me everywhere, I have no idea why. My friend asked him but he refuses to tell whats wrong or unblock me. I don't know what I am supposed to do, I am really into him.. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 31, 2020 Share Posted May 31, 2020 What on earth do you find attractive about this dink? He's shy, introverted, he doesn't want to facetime you, probably too fearful for it. He lies and puts you off. AND he doesn't like you and was rude about it. Stop letting yourself like him and move on and block him back. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 31, 2020 Share Posted May 31, 2020 You do nothing. You recognize that he has slammed a virtual door in your face. You walk away. You accept that while you like him, he thought you were a p.i.t.a. Next time you like somebody you don't be quite so pushy about it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ANN98 Posted May 31, 2020 Author Share Posted May 31, 2020 7 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: You do nothing. You recognize that he has slammed a virtual door in your face. You walk away. You accept that while you like him, he thought you were a p.i.t.a. Next time you like somebody you don't be quite so pushy about it. I don't feel as if I was pushy. He seemed to enjoy talking to me, he was always sending me walls of texts once I texted him. Could he get so angry with the joke I said? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 31, 2020 Share Posted May 31, 2020 I can't ascribe motives to what he did. All I know is what you posted. He blocked you. That is a serious declaration that he doesn't want to interact with you. If you keep pushing you risk crossing into stalker territory. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ANN98 Posted May 31, 2020 Author Share Posted May 31, 2020 27 minutes ago, preraph said: What on earth do you find attractive about this dink? He's shy, introverted, he doesn't want to facetime you, probably too fearful for it. He lies and puts you off. AND he doesn't like you and was rude about it. Stop letting yourself like him and move on and block him back. 15 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: You do nothing. You recognize that he has slammed a virtual door in your face. You walk away. You accept that while you like him, he thought you were a p.i.t.a. Next time you like somebody you don't be quite so pushy about it. 3 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: I can't ascribe motives to what he did. All I know is what you posted. He blocked you. That is a serious declaration that he doesn't want to interact with you. If you keep pushing you risk crossing into stalker territory. Ok guys thanks I guess I just have to move on. 3 1 Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted June 1, 2020 Share Posted June 1, 2020 6 hours ago, ANN98 said: I don't know what I am supposed to do, I am really into him.. Get out of him... and leave him where he's chosen to stand. Find someone who treats you better than this. His behavior is unacceptable. Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted June 1, 2020 Share Posted June 1, 2020 6 hours ago, ANN98 said: I don't feel as if I was pushy. Quote I was the one initiating our conversations then I asked him for face time I texted him on saturday The next day I was waiting for him to reach out I texted him out of nowhere that I am annoying and he is not talking to me. he was always sending me walls of texts once I texted him. you had to chase him to get him just to give you the time of day, so yeah, you were pushing. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted June 1, 2020 Share Posted June 1, 2020 I think he was looking for a way of breaking contact anyway, OP. He just took the opportunity when you made this joke, but even if you hadn't done that, he would've found another exit hatch sooner or later. The fact that he was responding to you but not initiating contact (and dodging your attempt to FaceTime) says a lot. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted June 1, 2020 Share Posted June 1, 2020 18 hours ago, ANN98 said: Then I texted him "Yea, I won't beat that, you're old and experienced" - which was a joke that I always told him. He doesn't appreciate your banter. Some people find banter a turn off, others a turn on. He's not interested in you so leave him alone. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ANN98 Posted June 3, 2020 Author Share Posted June 3, 2020 He texted me on a course group conversation today, sending me his assignemt to "help" me. I was just asking people from group for help in converting one type of file to another. I am still blocked. Does that mean he is not angry but wants to have nothing personal in common with me? Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted June 3, 2020 Share Posted June 3, 2020 I hope he isn't trying to use you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ANN98 Posted June 3, 2020 Author Share Posted June 3, 2020 53 minutes ago, stillafool said: I hope he isn't trying to use you. In what way? Link to post Share on other sites
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