Author SSGoku Posted June 3, 2020 Author Share Posted June 3, 2020 1 hour ago, Calmandfocused said: Op. You’re in shock! Just take it easy for a moment and take a step back ... just for a moment. I’ve been here numerous of times in my life. Where I just couldn’t believe or fathom how a person I loved so much, and who I thought loved me could treat me in such a despicable manner. The devastation, the despair and the pain. OMG the pain feels like it could easily kill you ..... The glory when they came back. The forgiveness, the rationalisations, the denial, the excuses ..... then they did it to me again ... and again ... and again. Rinse, lather, repeat. Op do not be me. You are wishing for the above cycle to continue. You have no idea how dangerous this hamster wheel is. Fact: Someone who truly loves you will never verbally and emotionally abuse you. They will have your best interest at heart and they will never intentionally harm you. Digest this information and use this to build up your logic defences to stay away from her. At the moment you’re crippled by your emotional thinking and it’s not helping you. Ask yourself, do you really and honestly want to be with someone who treats you like this? Don’t you want better for yourself ? Don’t you want to be number one in someone’s life? I hope she doesn’t come back to you. You don’t need to be with someone like this and her staying away from you will help you move on. Thank you, I really needed to hear that Link to post Share on other sites
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